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Search Results: get my attention
Does this gym regular actually like me or am I overthinking it?
his girl checked in at the gym i work at and reached all the way from the other side of the counter (mind you there was a display inbetween to check in. there was nobody in front of her or behind her. at first i thought...
ikonik
Xper 6 Age: 38 If you want a partner with dignity, integrity, and self respect, what do your own actions reflect about the standard you actually live by?
For example, someone may say they want a loyal, stable, long term partner, but in reality still choose things like: 1. engaging in short term connections with people they already know aren’t aligned long term. 2....
Anonymous
(30-35) When people only call me cute and never pretty or hot, what does that really mean?
Honestly, I rarely get compliments, neither from boys nor from girls. And when I do, it’s usually something like “you have such big blue eyes” or that I’m “a very pleasant person to be around” (which is kind of ironic,...
Anonymous
(18-24) If someone ghosts you for months then returns, would you ignore them?
I feel like if a person suddenly stops all communication without a reason i think they never will get my attention again and i will ignore them. Do you feel the same?
michael3478
Xper 6 Age: 30 Is it better to let people discover your point or to shove it down their throats so they know you're better than they are?
(Do people just not know I'm being sarcastic?😂 What am I using all these emoji for?🤷🏼♂️) I get bored trying to explain things normally just to be misunderstood because people only pay attention to key phrases... So...
Can emotional neglect in childhood affect adult attachment and neediness?
Due to financial reasons I never got to enjoy, connect, or love of my parents. They were forced of a joint family, and I was 3 years old, barely surviving. They did a great job though, did the education, care and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does he seek my attention but pull away when I talk to him?
This guy tries to get my attention a lot. However what I noticed which is super odd - he doesn't really talk to me one on one and also when I do talk to him he pulls back. I noticed this once in person and I noticed it...
Anonymous
(30-35) If a guy pursues me on Instagram for years with no response, is it real interest?
He had been trying to get to know me since 2019. We are both 36. We both are fit and attractive. To me it’s hard to believe someone would pursue me for that long specially since I paid him no attention.
Iggy200
Xper 1 Age: 36 Do guys actually care more about personality than appearance?
When I was the prettiest I had ever been, I would get approached once every 4 years. When I was the ugliest I had ever been, I would get approached 5 times a month, because I was more confident and intelligent when I got...
Why do little things hurt so much?
Ok, so, like, this morning I was putting wood in the wood stove 'cuz it's still friggen cold in the mornings but not as cold as it has been all friggen winter like I bitched about so I won't bitch about it quite as much...
RandomGirl42
Guru Age: 26 Did my waiter genuinely want to give his number, or feel obligated?
I had a nice waiter and we seemed to connect. I wasn’t thinking much of him because he’s a bit younger than me but he was very attentive and went beyond on some things. Asking questions etc just very engaging like most...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is there so much backlash and hate toward flat-chested women?
I’ve struggled with BDD (body dysmorphia) since I was 15 because I didn’t develop like other girls, especially in the chest area. My face is pretty average too, so I never felt like I had anything to “make up” for it....
Anonymous
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Dina_Melissa19
Xper 6 Age: 29 Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?
So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and is texting me from there, even though he said he wasn’t sure if he would be...
avadino
Xper 1 Age: 25 How do I stop fearing I’ll meet someone better and just commit?
I’m an 18-year-old female. I’ve never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone, and never gotten physical. But it’s fair to say I get a lot of attention from men, and I’ve had a few solid talking stages. I’ve been...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Talking to a guy for 2 months… but he has a girlfriend (long-distance). Am I wasting my time?
I need outside perspectives because I feel like I’m starting to lose clarity. I’ve been talking to a guy consistently for about 2 months. We text almost daily — not just small talk, but real conversations, flirting, and...
confusedgirl1025
Xper 1 Age: 30 Guys, How do I get a man's attention without being annoying?
There's a man I'm interested in and I'd like to get to know him better. Here's the thing, though. In the past, men have told me that I'm annoying, pesky, etc. I really like this guy and I don't want to push him away. For...
jazzy34
Yoda Age: 36 Do modern women have more double standards and dating requirements?
I have often seen women stating that they want the man of their dream has to be handsome, rich, understanding and when it comes to reality they don't get the attention of those kinds of men. And those who are available...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this girl at my gym actually interested in me or am I overthinking it?
the other day, this girl checked in at the gym i work at and reached all the way from the other side of the counter (mind you there was a display inbetween to check in. there was nobody in front of her or behind her. at...
ikonik
Xper 6 Age: 38 