Search Results: getting casual

Why ask for nsa, get clingy and then ghost?

I don't normally hookup with people I barely know but I was lonely and sad... So I met a younger man wanting a ons or friends with benefits and agreed to an encounter. As soon as I agreed he started with the "woah, for...

NaiaDancer

Xper 5 Age: 42

As an Older Woman Dating a Younger Man, the 'Cougar' Stereotype Is Harmful and Needs to Go

I'm a 40-year-old woman dating a 27-year-old man, and we've been together for 8 months. Our relationship is incredibly meaningful to me. We have a strong, supportive connection where we both feel heard and understood. We...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

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Is it feelings or leading on?

What do i do, I can do casual relationships but I'm starting to really like this guy and the guy knows this. He said if it hurts me to much we don't have to do anything psychical but I want to, I just get into my head at...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is my manager being culturally friendly or is this work place sexual abuse?

I work casual-time in a Vietnamese bubble tea store. We have rotational managers and they have all been previously lovely until my recent manager, male and middle aged Vietnamese man, came along. He is super nosy and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Advice Needed Updated from my question about whether to get attached to someone who only wants to keep things casual, what do to do now?

So similar to my last question about getting attached to someone who only wants things casual. We've done quite a bit together (hangout, work, college, sex, etc.) For an update, we did talk about it and he said he does...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy friend texted me while overseas visiting family?

I used to be in casual relationship with him, and now he travelled overseas to visit his family. The day before getting back, he texted me to say he intends to come over this weekend? Seems I'm somehow on his mind, huh?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have I done all that I could for now?

Been talking with this girl I’ve known for a bit for a couple months. We also work together not all the time but we do see each other there. I remember she approached me when we walked into the building I asked where she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the point of casual dating/relationships?

Why spend time and energy (and sometimes resources) getting to know someone if you don’t intend on making this a serious, long-term relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Must I have a birthday party?

I was throwing a party with four of my friends going; but now, one of my best friends is busy doing something with his parents and I’m not getting on well with my other best friend right now, which leaves the other two...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How Do I Overcome the Fear of Being Seen as Just a ‘Baby Mother’ Instead of a Partner?

I feel like I need to stay in control of situations now that I’m older. I’m afraid of having kids because I don’t want to end up as just someone’s “baby mother” rather than a partner or a wife. Some people have even told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I make the right thing by cutting him off?

I was getting attached to someone on Snapchat who was not looking for a relationship while I actually was. We talked everyday, all day long, and we had nice talks, and I actually thought something was developing, but we...

Lyhra4

Xper 6 Age: 33

What’s going on here?

I’ve had this casual friend, who I’ll call *Ella.*. Ella keeps reaching out to make plans with me, then postponing them, then cancelling them. Then apologises, then she gets back in touch, weeks or months later and...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Flowers but no second date?

A guy who I went on a first date with surprised me with flowers at the end of the date. I texted him that I got home safe and told him I had a great time. He texted me back saying that he’s happy I liked the flowers and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Which shirts or jacket shorts would look good with this cowboy hat? ?

I have a Russian boyfriend that I’ve never met. He asked for a cowboy hat as gift so I wanted to add some extra surprise clothes to go with it. don’t know his style at all. im getting him the first shirt (photo) after...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, is he hiding other relationships to keep ours?

I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy from Illinois since February. I wasn't really looking for anything serious when I started talking with him so it definitely didn't bother me when he said he was poly. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

In my early 20s and dated 2 girls. In the midst of dating process, I found out some things about myself which have me questioning about dating?

The first girl that I dated was between my highschool and college freshman year. It started in school and turned into LDR. It was a shit-show of me getting blocked because I either said something 'bad' or didn't reply on...

Robo-Duh

Xper 3 Age: 25

How to handle this or shut it down?

Hello, Long story short, I'm dating an ex from a few years back. Everything has been fine, but semi casual. Tonight he texted asking if I'm free Sunday. I said yeah, he said he couls come over. this means one of 2 things,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Women Got Angry Because Men Started Learning

As many of you know, I’m not into a lot of RedPill or MGTOW, although I think MGTOW is less of a thing nowadays because RedPill is probably just an evolved form of MGTOW. I don’t agree with most of it, especially with its...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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