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Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up
If You Were My Age in this situation, What Would You Do?
I’m in college (Ivy League) and met this girl who’s perfect in so many ways. She’s insanely beautiful (like “gets discounts just for walking in” beautiful), smart, ambitious, and knows exactly what she wants. She comes...
urlittlebro
Xper 1 Age: 20 Should I go for it?
I’m in college (Ivy League) and met this girl who is honestly perfect in every way. She’s insanely beautiful (like “gets discounts just for walking in” beautiful), smart, ambitious, knows exactly what she wants in life,...
urlittlebro
Xper 1 Age: 20 Why doesn’t friend turn every guy down that we introduce her too?
She’s been single for five years and we haven’t hooked her up in a couple years. Every time we told her a guy was interested in her, she always says she isn’t ready or she doesn’t thing she would make a great girlfriend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls what does it mean if a barista lady gives you her number, and afterwards say she isn’t looking to date? did she feel pressured to give me this?
Did she want a hook up or a potential one with me? i know every lady is different. This was this weekend.
Anonymous
(25-29) He tried to sleep w me first date. Red flag?
So I went on a date w a guy and it was supposed to be grabbing food but I wasn’t hungry so it was a drive but he taken me to this car park spot and we spoke for ages and then he kept trying to hook up w me in his car even...
Brunettexoxo
Xper 5 Age: 26 Friends with benefits where is the silver lining? Or any lining?
So I recently got this friends with benefits. I moved to a new town. He said he didn’t want anything. He wants his peace. I’m on the same page. Peace and stacking up. But I’m getting mixed signals. We text here and there...
Anonymous
(30-35) He just told me he is emotionally unavailable?
I have a thing with a guy where we have been off and on, but I´ve only been with him a few times. Things progressed really fast with us, and last time it went really fast and this time around it´s a bit different, however...
Anonymous
(30-35) Friends with benefits can a girl get a guide book here?
So I think I have a friends with benefits? I don’t really know? I just need a man’s perspective or well anyones really. I met him through church. Well his mom who was at church then him. We all went out to eat. He payed...
plumplum-1994
Xper 5 Age: 31 My friend keeps going back to him even though he treats her awfully, should we stop giving her advice and let her do her own thing?
My friend has had a pretty consistant casual relationship with this guy, right at the start it was going well, however a few months in she noticed that when she would be at the pub he worked at he would ignore her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, how do I find an attractive man who's not emotionally damaged from the previous relationship and ain't messing around?
so im 20, looking for a stable loving relationship, obviously dating apps are useless when you wanna settle for one person. so what do i do, i end up finding breadcrumbers, or those who wanna hook up, not one person who...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should special needs people only date each other and give up on dating non disabled people?
Okay guys. Im autistic. I’m just going to be straight up honest with you guys. I don’t think I will EVER find the man of my dreams. Let’s face it, most men that I want and like never like me back. I’ve only had two...
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm at a loss and don't know how to read signals if any?
I've taken some time off of seeing anybody especially after this last experience with a guy and well I finally am trying to start seeing this new guy after months and right now it's really only as a hook up and also...
Anonymous
(18-24) I apparently misread this situation but I don’t understand how?
I downloaded an app called pure, which is basically an anonymous hook up app. Its entire purpose is sex. I matched with this girl, and we ended up sexting the first night. I had told her to always let me know if she is...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why people use others in romantic relationships
Unfortunately most people aren’t honest about what they’re wanting when they are going to use someone. They love bomb I’ve discussed the signs someone isn’t who someone seems, but these are the reasons behind it. Of...
So You Think You'd Never Join A Cult?
Thanks to social media, we as a society have begun to hear a lot of stories from people who were brought up in cult life, and have escaped cults as adults. Thanks to movies and a lot of horror fiction, there has been this...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does she like me?
I work at a couple strip clubs for my godfather (we’ll call him Sal). I’m a bouncer at one and kinda like a bar manager at the other. On Tuesdays and some Thursdays I open at 8pm and am usually there alone with this one...
Dboy97
Xper 3 Age: 28 How do you deal with women who won’t take no for an answer?
I went on three dates with this woman and felt like we weren’t compatible enough for a relationship and proposed that we be friends with benefits. She turned this proposal down and ended things with me. I reached out to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I tell my boyfriend that we will be in close proximity to someone I have hooked up with before?
Almost a decade ago, I had a “fling” with one of my brother’s friends. It lasted like two weeks. Obviously my brother doesn’t know. Anyway, my boyfriend and I will be in the same vicinity as the old fling this weekend as...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do guys ALWAYS leave me for gorgeous women?
Okay so I think I’m okay looking. I’m not gorgeous but I’m not ugly. I don’t really dress up, I just wear cute blouses, jeans, sneakers, band shirts or flannel shirts. I don’t dress feminine but I don’t dress manly. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need post hook-up advice:I don't know what happened?
I kinda know what's going on but still some clarity would be nice. I was texting with this guy on and off for a month and initially I wasn't super interested. He was very proactive in texting me and would double text and...
Sara_cs
Xper 1 Age: 35 