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How do you tell someone about a traumatic past you've had?

Im talking about when you've already healed and am ready to move on with your life. How do you tell someone that you're interested in romanticly that you've got some damage without scaring them away?
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How would you go about asking out a girl who is selective and doesn’t like unwanted attention?

We are new friends and I think I’d like a relationship with her at some time. She asks me personal questions about what I would want in a women etc, and I’ve asked her personal questions like if a person was willing to...
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Do you think most adults just aren't that interested in making friends?

We all know friends become harder to make as we get older. Over the past 10 years, I have just come to realize that the only people who I have had long term friendships were guys who were in love with me. I also had 1...
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Should I try to reach out to a guy I liked at work who just quit?

There was a newer guy I was really attracted to at my job. We didn't talk a lot because we worked in separate areas, but we had a couple really good chats and I was starting to like him. He kinda just up and vanished this...
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Im gay and everyone knows it but I am afraid and unsure how to come out?

Ever since grade school i was treated by kids and teachers differently. Female teachers always bullied me for the class to laugh at my expense. Growing up girls never cared for me or showed interest and guys didn't want...
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I feel trapped?

I moved away from a place that really hurt me. my family betrayed and abandoned me. so i started a new life. only to find out. my partner is making me feel something. constantly being told no. no i can't drive. no i can't...
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Why have I just gotten to a point where I’ve accepted that I’ll never be loved romantically? I’ve completely stopped trying and it feels wrong?

I am asked a lot if I’m dating anyone or where I meet anyone and it always trips me up because it doesn’t cross my mind anymore as a possibility in my future. I don’t really feel good or bad about it, just completely...
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Should I end this or continue talking to him basically on his terms?

I was going out with this guy for a month we went on dates and hung out together basically everyday for a month. He left to Europe for a trip with his family for a month and since he’s been gone he’s barely reached out to...
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He is not saying good mornings and goodnights anymore, does it mean he’s losing interest?

Im in a situationship rn with a guy I’ve been seeing over 2 months. At first, i thought everything was going great, he would kiss me in the cheek and lips and hug me all the time, making me feel he likes me very much. But...
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Do some guys use women for food?

I know some women date purely for the free food and drinks from dates. But lately i have seen several posts and videos talking about men who lead women on just for free food. Is that a real thing? How can you tell when a...
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How do you recover when people go along with someone being abused in a relationship?

So I was in a relationship 2 years ago where people knew that my ex girlfriend was hitting me, constantly calling me horrible names such as bitch, stupid motherfucker, nuisance. Our mutual friends didn’t seem to her, her...
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A girl im seeing said im not a priority and it makes me feel like im an afterthought. what should I do?

She and I matched on Tinder last month and our first date was amazing. Conversation just flowed naturally. A week later was our second date where things began to go downhill. I thought it was time to ask deeper question...
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Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?

My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was...
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Im overreacting right?

I know i likely am, and i genuinely dont think he's interested or anything, and even if he was it would be illegal, but I've developed a big crush on the IT guy at college (he does exams aswell) . I've been there part...
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I know i likely am, and i genuinely dont think he's interested or anything, and even if he was it would be illegal, but I've developed a big crush on the IT guy at college (he does Show More
Yes u r over reacting
there's a chance he's interested but its illegal
Yes he's interested but doesn't know if i am and its too awkward in college, sort it when i finish😂
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Why do I get responses like this on dating apps all the time?

Im not the best conversationalist but its like these girls dont try I’ve had a lot of convos with girls and im just tired of ME asking all the questions and them just responding. Recently I've started unmatching them...
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What means if a female coworker sends selfies?

I've been dealing for a couple of months a situation with a coworker. Due to our nature of work we started working together even though we are from different departments. We started having lunch together and also went out...
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What does he wants? Im confused?

So I like this guy from work and we were talking for some time. he was always interested and you could feel the chemistry between us. Bu he began also to send mixed signals and asking everyone for drinks at work except me...
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If you're the type to ghost people what would be your main reason for doing so?

If you don't ghost people then good on you. this question is for those who have done it or do it on a semi-regular basis. So what would be the most common reason you're like 'welp im not gonna talk to this person ever...
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If you don't ghost people then good on you. this question is for those who have done it or do it on a semi-regular basis. So what would be the most common reason you're like 'welp im Show More
I was no longer interested in talking to them and didn't want to upset or hurt them by telling them that outright
Something they said was upsetting or made me uncomfortable and felt uncomfortable informing them of that
they were showing romantic interest and i wasn't as into them and didn't want to hurt them by telling them
I was unsure how they'd react if i told them i don't want to talk anymore so i just did so without informing them and hope they get the hint
Ghosting people is just the new normal, everyone does it so they ought to be used to it by now anyways
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I don't ghost people. if im not interested in talking anymore i tell them
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Why Does He Never Want Sex?

My man and i have only been together for 3 months but known each other for years. I thought in the beginning of a relationship, these should be times of having daily sex and the whole honeymoon phase. He works in the day,...
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Is he interested and is he too young?

I had to delete a bunch of text cuz of limitations. was much more detailed. But this is what I can post - this is a gym scenario first - I am using a machine and he comes up to ask how many sets I have. I tell him I have...
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