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Guys, is he cheating or am I overthinking?

I have been dating a guy for over a year. He may also be a covert narcisist. Lately I have been seeing things that felt "off" but never mentioned them to him to avoid seeming like a toxic girlfriend. I have also been...
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Was I wrong to cancel my trip to visit him?

I (30F) met this guy (34M) on Raya a little over a month ago. We quickly hit it off and bonded (virtually, he lives in Indianapolis and I live in Atlanta). We spoke throughout every day and ended everyday on FT watching a...
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Looked at boyfriends phone, am I over reacting?

Last summer I found my boyfriend texting some girl from his area on Instagram, I was also pregnant at the time. When I confronted him about it he told me that was hid friend texting her off his Instagram and that he...
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Can trust issues be a good reason to avoid relationships?

I've only been in one "serious" relationship when I lost my virginity to him at 26. We met online through a dating site (in 2013) and kind of hit it off but I wasn't expecting anything serious being that it was long...
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My crush added me back on snapchat, what do I say?

I'm 14 and a closeted trans girl. This person is a close friend of people in my friend group, we hang out with my friends there but we dont talk much because im too nervous to start conversations. They are a trans guy and...
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What to do with my gym crush?

I started going to a new gym in October, and ever since December, I've noticed this guy who I've formed a crush on. I think he notices me too, but I can’t tell if the feelings are mutual. It’s one of those situations...
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How do you deal with a jealous friend who you still love?

My friend has admitted that at one point during our teenage years she used to try to put me down because of jealousy only to realize how wrong she was because she knows I have been nothing but a good friend to her. Even...
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After 9 months a guy has suddenly started to say hi and smile at me. Is trying to show he’s interested in me or just being to be nice?

Ok, so here’s some back ground. We both work in a hospital, in different departments.. I’ve been there for 9 months, but he’s not noticed me and there was no real reason to talk to each other. I did notice him quite...
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My (f31) Slightly distant friends with benefits (m34) suddenly became very responsive after he asked for a DTR talk? What are your thoughts?

I’m seeing someone casually. Have known him several years and it’s been an on again off again thing. Never had the dating conversation officially, although once years ago, he said he hadn’t really seen it going anywhere...
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He is showing all usual signs of having a crush and even came close recently, turned my way and gave me his hand by staring into my eyes. ?

I can almost certainly say that he likes me bc his body language is open and he always workouts close to me. Too close. A guy showed interest and we started flirting and he told him that I have a son behind my back. Just...
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I already apologized, what else can I do?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. We aren’t officially together yet but thus far the signs have been good i think. We see each other around twice a week, talk everyday, and have gotten comfortable...
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Why do guys show interest then stop when I show interest back?

Growing up I never had like male attention except here and there. Only up until my first year of college. Now I get a lot of male attention, and a lot of guys approach me but some don’t come off too pushy like first...
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What are some signs she likes me through text? And how do I know if "flirty friends" is just FOR NOW?

I've been talking to this girl that I met through a dating app for the past few days and I'm getting mixed signals from her. Basically we flirt, but are only friends (as she calls it "flirt friends"). She said that we're...
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Am I making the right decision walking away?

I had a crush on this guy! He’s been showing subtle signs of liking me. Everyone tends to think he likes me because he does things for me he doesn’t or hasn’t done for others in the circle. Now I confided in two of our...
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Is the communication a sign of hope?

Me and my fiance got in a big disagreement that led us to call off our engagement. I didn’t visit for his birthday. We exchanged some nasty messages he told me he is done and he will never love me. I should move on. That...
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He asked for if I was married?

we are friends but not super good friends. We know each other and say hi and how you been? Here and there. We go to the same youth group and he is 20 and I’m 17. Almost 18. And he asked me if I was married. I thought it...
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At a crossroads in life… what should I do?

I just feel stuck… working a contract job that I do like in terms of the work but the pay is not great and there is no sign of that changing soon, and to go direct you need a bachelors degree… to do the same work I’m...
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Is this a sign my ex has feelings or wants nothing to do with me?

Me and my ex work with each other and recently got into a huge fight. Our assistant manager told him to stay away from me. We’ve stopped all communication, blocked each other on all social media and no more after work...
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How do I determine if he’s still seeing his ex?

We’ve been dating around two months. He recently got out of a two year relationship but he’s known her over ten years. She cheated on him and he broke it off. She still wants him back though and will tell me they’re still...
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Guys, would you ask or ghost in this situation?

A guy I was casual with started acting differently for the last couple of days I was with him - he put less emphasis on sex, and wanted to take long walks, talk, wach a movie together, cuddle... We also talked about our...
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A guy I was casual with started acting differently for the last couple of days I was with him - he put less emphasis on sex, and wanted to take long walks, talk, wach a movie together, Show More
I'd ask. Don't text him
I wouldn't ask. Text him
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