Search Results: does he want a relationship

My ex with BPD is starting to make me nervous, what do I do?

This is a very unfortunate situation as I don’t think he’s doing enough for me to actually take this further, and I work with him once a week (yeah I know, big mistake.) Also even if I found another job, my feeling is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I do all the housework. How can I convince my husband to help me?

My husband works full-time in physically demanding job. I also work full-time as a sales assistant. Most days, I come home and clean the house—dishes, vacuuming, mopping, and general tidying up—. I feel mentally and...

sundance

Xper 5 Age: 39

How can you stop being crazy and insecure in a relationship?

I’m very anxious while in relationships (I think it’s typically because I have a hard time maintaining relationships in my life in general because I’m super independent and find being alone peaceful) however I do want a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, What is his problem?

I have a friend who I’m really close to. He’s in a 12 year relationship but he has said that he has fallen for me and wants to be with me. He says he doesn’t want his relationship with her anymore but still hasn’t made...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he say we're not together after 4 months?

What does it mean if a guy says I'm not his girlfriend & we're not officially together yet after texting, calling, regularly dating, introducing me to his friends, buying me stuff & having sex for 4 months? We're 20. In...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Can you list the troubling qualities of your all-time best partner?

If I ask you to list the bad qualities of your worst-ever relationship, you could probably identify at least ten things that he or she did that drove you crazy. I could certainly give you a laundry list of outstandingly...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Guys, This question is specifically for straight white men. In a committed relationship, what is your preference in women, in terms of race?

This question is purely based off of genuine curiosity about how differences in culture and backgrounds affect relationships. Does race ever play a role in who you ultimately end up with and why? (I know this question can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

This question is purely based off of genuine curiosity about how differences in culture and backgrounds affect relationships. Does race ever play a role in who you ultimately end up

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Guys if you always respond to a girl, is it out of courtesy or you like her?

A guy that I like, who said he’s not looking for a relationship but is attracted to me said he still loves spending time with me. We decided not to hookup because I don’t want that. Question is, generally when I text...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he seem serious about me or is lying to be about wanting to be in a relationship just to get sex?

I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks and he said he wants to be in a relationship with me but he has taken me out on dates and we hooked up after but told me he wanted to be in a relationship with me but we mostly...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m confused, help?

Why is it that the more attention you give a man the more they pull away? I noticed that in my relationships, the guy will pursue me hard, always calling/texting me, always wanting to hang out etc. Then once I start...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does he mean?

He said he doesn’t want a relationship as he’s just got out of one but then said “I rate you though for sure”. What does this mean,

Anonymous

(18-24)

When it comes to falling in love, what exactly does "I'm looking for you, where are you, and I'm always waiting for you" mean?

I am confused about a few things: 1. If he already knows someone and has a platonic or romantic relationship with his loved one, Why does he want to find the person and know where she is? 2. Shouldn't he most likely know...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Confused about my guy friend's feelings for me?

So I have been friends with this guy for a year and we have been very close. I developed feelings for him after I opened up to him very emotionally pretty early in our friendship. Later I confessed to him and he rejected...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Genuinely wondering what it takes?

I’m wondering if a pretty girl really has to do much for men to think they can hit on her. I’ve been in an unhealthy very dissatisfying abusive relationship and I only have to be myself (polite) to a man to warrant...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do when the guy im dating overthinks a lot?

He overthinks and thinks I dont really like him. It doesn't help that I dont message often but I do try to message 2 or 3 times a week because I noticed he also will just wait for me to message him. I also dont reassure...

Ofoceansbeaches1

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why can't my brother date someone else?

He's currently in a relationship for 2 years and the girl is from Venezuela. She's at intermediate English at the point and a permanent resident. The issue is that many people from Venezuela are already having a bad...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to handle a lack of interest by women

This is actually both a question and a proposed answer My Take. Maybe even a Journal of where my life is at currently. To start, I will state my dilemma. I notice there is something missing in my life that makes my life...

strangeatcircleK

Xper 4 Age: 42

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Am I thinking too much?

I am dating a guy who is 2 years younger to me. He is nice and gentleman kind. I like him a bit and he says he likes me. I slept with him on our 2nd date. I think I have ruined everything. I don't think he won't ask me to...

Starwitch23

Xper 7 Age: 28