Search Results: guys talking

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does actually mean? (We haven't had sex)?

When a guy says he wants to “take things slow” What does that actually mean? Hi Reddit, I (23F) have been seeing a guy (27M, German) and I’m really confused about his behavior. We’ve been on 4 dates so far, and he’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Has frequently being sa lead me to abusers?

T. W~ pregnancy, sex, sex assault, abuse. I left my abuser in June. I went on a sex spree. I put myself in a dangerous situation and was getting attacked. Anyway, I met this guy. He was lovely. But I should have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, I found out the man that I am dating and trying to have a family with is married. How do I confront him?

I am 38 and want to be a mother. I have tried dating for the past 10 years and no one that I have dated, wants to get married or have kids. I am getting older and want to have children while I still can. I decided to use...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Did she lie to me about sleeping with her friend? Girls please help?

backstory, before me and my girlfriend started dating during the talking phase she said "Pauly is my best friend he's a guy, we've never done anything but it went around that we did cause my ex was cheating on me so I set...

Skater92j

Xper 1 Age: 37

How To Text A Guy Back

Fun Texts To Send I was reading this totally awesome guide on how to text a girl. Y'know, for the heck of it. Some of the points I agree would work on me. But how do you throw off a guy's game? How do you check if he's...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

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If a guy cross his arms while talking to me and angry, does that mean he doesn't want to talk to you?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Society & Politics

Do you think this lady was unhinged, or should my mom have kept her mouth shut?

Me, my mom, and sister went to a garage sale yesterday. We were talking to the home owner who was sitting there when this lady pulled in, and walked up without saying a word. My moms works at a school, and they are going...

Nicholas1302

Xper 5 Age: 32

Family & Friends

Why would my slim friend only invite me out to make herself look good and men flirt with her in front of me?

I’ve known her since high school but we didn’t interact with her much. We have started talking more and hung out often. She is a very cool, hip and fashionable girly girl. Well I used to thing she’s a sweetheart until...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I get a comitted relationship at age 28? Why guys only want sex and no girlfriend?

I need help. Ik everyone is tired or don’t believe I never had a boyfriend. Well it’s true I never had a boyfriend. I need help. guys don’t want a girlfriend, they all say they had many gfs before , or thier parents...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Where is my headspace with this coworker for 7 months now?

I’m a quiet, reserved girl — not really the outgoing or flirty type at work. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I don’t usually give much attention to other guys. But since February, I’ve noticed one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what do I do when I like my guy friend?

I’m 16 (junior in HS) and there’s this guy who was my senior (now 18, graduated). He sent me a follow request first on IG in Oct 2024 and later texted me first in Jan 2025. We started talking when exams were coming up. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you guys (or girls) have any advice for me?

I’ll call them Emma and rose ( not real names obviously). I met both of them over the summer and like both of them in a romantic relationship way not js as friends. I was talking to Emma first but she seemed distant and...

Orange26

Xper 1 Age: 25

How much does personality play into your initial attraction to someone?

For example, you are in a group social, and you find the guy to be average looking, but then you talk to him and like his personality. In that moment, do they become more physically attractive to you, or does it stay the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I bring up Instagram or just wait?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about three months and we made it official just three days ago. Until now, we’ve only been texting, but recently we started having calls too. The thing is, we don’t follow each other on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are attractive men still in average women's DM even though they know nothing about them but their face and body?

Sometimes, I add attractive guys, get attention from them, and then leave them on read. Instead of never talking to me again or waiting until I post again, some leave multiple messages and videos for me. I see them...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I swallow my pride and just tell him how I feel?

this guy and i talked for a week and it felt like a soul connection from the start, he and i were so alike and he even told me he’s been wanting to meet someone with an alike mind and felt it was finally here. I felt like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you date someone who works at your favorite place?

So I like going to this restaurant. I've been going for 8 years and for the past 2 years going once a month or once every 2 months. I made it a habit of going there around the same time and ordering the same items. Most...

Wuai201

Xper 6 Age: 29

Why do I like the idea of a relationship but a real life chance of it makes me uncomfortable?

I am just trying to know if it's normal among others. To explain what I mean, I like the idea of being in love. However, if someone approaches me real life I don't feel comfortable. A guy told me yesterday that he liked...

Anonymous

(18-24)