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27F, I’ve officially come to terms with the fact I’ll end up alone. I’ve been on and off the apps for years, I really don’t think I’m that unattractive but the dating apps have indicated otherwise. I get a good bit of matches and guys reach out, it always either dies out or it isn’t reciprocated from the guy or I. I’ve tried almost every app, paid and free. I have one app installed, there was one time last year where I deleted the app for 6 months. Currently, I swipe on profiles maybe every other week or reply to messages 2-3 times per week. I don’t have friends so the apps are my only avenue considering I’m a homebody. I do know they work for some though, people have said I’m cute/attractive etc but guys never approach me in person. I used to purposely hold back and try to play hard to get, now I’m at the point where I have to force myself to open the app and remember to reply to this guy and so forth. I don’t want kids, id be down to get married but really worry about the reality that id have to be sexual knowing guys urges and so. I am not sexual, I haven’t had sex or masturbated in years. Maybe the right guy will change that?
Also, certain things about guys kinda turn me off, almost every guy I’ve known including my dad who I’m close with has dickish/macho tendencies and I don’t have patience for it lol.

TL;DR: does it sound like my dry spell/bad luck with dating apps stem from lack of interest? Or am I bitter?

27F, I feel like my life has changed over the past year nothing drastic but things aren’t the same with people I’ve known. No personality changes, more like I don’t speak with them as often because they’re busier, other changes aside that which aren’t boding well with me. Ever since I came back from a concert 3 weeks ago, I’ve been in this rut where I feel so dismal knowing there’s nothing else to look forward to. I’ve worked from home since earlier this year and I think I hate the job, the duties itself. I’ve called out sick the past 2 days even after this past long weekend and this isn’t me I really hope I snap out of it. I’d like to believe this feeling is also linked with my menstruation cycle but I’m not too sure. I hope I’m overthinking but I just lay in bed and feel like I kind of hate my life at the moment, I quit my last job almost a year ago and can’t afford to live off my savings again since that’s what supported me up till I got this current job. I’m too grown for this, this would’ve been more suitable back when I was in college and still living at home. I’m a very anxious person who’s normally cynical but it’s at another level atm