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Your family is strict and constantly asks your boyfriend to go grocery shopping with you (his girlfriend) and go from store to store for about half the day. One day, your sister leaves the house (for good) and things are bad. your parents are distraught refusing to do anything but cry in bed. You call your boyfriend late at night and tell him there is no food at home that you’ll probably have to see if he can take you grocery shopping. He says ONE store. You say ill see, ill call u tomorrow bc what if i need you? He says thats fine, ill be here. You call and he says he won't take you because he is with his brother and his SO who just came down from 2 towns over. He has told you in the past he values family. You are upset but your boyfriend doesn’t understand why. Who is right?

Boyfriend booked a trip for a few days to spend time with a friend. I casually asked how they met since he lives across the country. He says they used to be roommates.

I noticed a friend suggestion on fb and noticed the friend he's going to see had the same last name as his ex. Turns out, his friend is his ex girlfriend's brother.

I think it's a tad dishonest he didn't tell me, but maybe he doesn't see the guy as his ex gfs brother?

More backstory: They broke up 2 years ago and a few weeks ago she called him and said nasty things about me (we don't know each other, so she just said a bunch of prejudiced things). One of his friends overheard the conversation and told me about it.

A few weeks later, he's flying to meet up with her brother (i dont think these things are related). She will not be there. He's not going to see her. She lives in another state and won't be there when he's there. I'm sure of that.

Just looking for different perspectives. It's not the end of the world, it just puts a bad taste I'm my mouth.

30f 31m