Search Results: abusive

How to help coworker about domestic abuse?

I have a coworker who is in a very abusive relationship. This morning when she came into work her entire face was black and blue as well as both her eyes pooled with blood. It looked as if not a spot on her wasn’t. She...

Cupcakesilver

Xper 3 Age: 25

Why is my sister so nasty to me? How she talks to me in her abrupt rude tone of voice?

Basically I set up movie night, make a night of it for snacks, pizza etc.. with my sister and Dad. Then while the movie is on my sisters phone goes off in this loud notification and I say for her to put her phone on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be cautious of her?

So I met this woman on Reddit. And she has three kids, and she’s my age. Anyways, I was chatting up with her. And then all of a sudden, she just ghosted me out of nowhere. I thought that was weird. So I didn’t bother to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you NEED guys to have a great relationship with their mother?

If he hates his mother and his mothers a good person. Then I get it. If he’s disrespectful to his mom just to be. But it’s not really fair. Some people have bad childhoods. Some peoples mothers were abusive, ran off, or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Please suggest. Should I leave him coz it's really hard to take so much of toxicity?

I ws in a beautiful relationship of 2 years wth this guy. Initial days were amazing and untill 1 and a half years thing were going great. I was so madly in love with him and so was him. We always cared for each other. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I leave him coz it's really hard to take so much of toxicity?

I ws in a beautiful r relationship of 2 years wth this guy. Initial days were amazing and untill 1 nd a half years thing were going great. I was so madly in love with him, always cared n respected him a lot. I literally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it disrespectful to ghost a friend to end a friendship?

Is it disrespectful to ghost a friend when you're not feeling the friendship anymore? What if they were toxic or abusive? What if they weren't toxic but you just grew apart? Is it better to ghost someone or send them a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this emotional abuse and control?

I have been in what I’m learning to believe is an emotionally abusive relationship for some years. Usually when my partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol he becomes verbally horrible to me. He’s said many...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to deal with a condescending, belittling parent?

my dad just can be very mean, verbally abusive, condescending, belittling when angry or stressed. Most times his stress comes from absolutely nothing or things a normal human being wouldn’t be stressed over. He also yells...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you trust a new partner after years of extreme abuse?

Yes, I’m in counselling. No I don’t feel like there are many resources or even understanding or sympathy available for men. Yes, I take full responsibility for picking the abusive women in my last 3 marriages....

Charliefretz329

Guru Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

Why are some men abusive with women?

KittygosMeoWW

Yoda Age: 30

Why does she feel as though I’m judging her rather than trying to help her see what I’m seeing?

My younger sister is seeing a guy. He has a baby mom, who he still lives with and he tells my sister that he’s gonna move out and get his own place but he says he knows if he does that his baby mom won’t let him see his...

Egyptiannn

Xper 4 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Is making these type of jokes a red flag?

So yesterday, I was talking with my boyfriend on the phone and we were discussing about people having "harmful" habits as coping mechanisms for anxiety, as an explanation for my nail biting, and I told him "well, some...

Colourofthewind

Xper 5 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Are women normally abusive when it comes to video games or something competitive?

Ok so when we first started dating I played nba 2k with her and the scores were not close I’m a massive basketball fan so I know how to properly use the team I pick. So for example if I picked the suns and I started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

If you block people, how long did it take to get to the perfect place of people you enjoy?

I block all misogynists, racists, pedos and outright abusive people. I don't expect people to be perfect, or agree with everything I write, but that's my bare minimum. I'm enjoying things now here. How about you?

Anonymous

(25-29)

I dont know if I was being played or being pushy?

I dated a former co worker that came out of an 8 year relationship with someone who was 9 years older than her and i was 2 years younger. She claimed it was a toxic relationship and very abusive so her mental health went...

Erie96

Xper 1 Age: 29

Why is it when you take someone back who’s abusive they are worse?

Hello4242

Xper 5 Age: 32