Man, that sounds rough to deal with. Having a parent talk down to you and make you feel small really sucks. A few things that might help:
- Remember it says more about him than you when he acts that way. His stress is his problem, not a reflection of who you are.
- Try not to take the bait when he's yelling. Just remove yourself from the situation if you can until he calms down.
- Lean on other family/friends you trust to vent to so you have support. Don't bottle it up.
- Set boundaries - let him know disrespectful behavior is not ok. You deserve to feel safe at home.
- Could you talk to another trusted relative (maybe his parents?) about getting him help? His stress issues affect you guys.
- Take time for your hobbies/activities so you have an outlet separate from home stuff.
- Talk to a counselor if it's affecting your mental health. They can give coping strategies.
It's tough, but remember this phase will pass. Focus on your goals and becoming independent. You got this - your worth isn't defined by how one person treats you. Keep your head up!
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I LIVED WITH A FATHER LIKE THAT FOR FAR FAR TOO LONG... MY BEST ADVICE TO YOU IS GET AWAY FROM HIM ASAP
as people get older, they get meaner. i've noticed it too. they get so irritable, its scary. i hope you live away from him, for your mental health
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