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these type of things keep happening to me.


Okay here s what happened:

i ve been working in this company for around a year. When i first got here there s a guy (i would call him A) in finance department, a manager, and the boss s brother.

there s a HR , really like gossiping, keeps telling me to consider dating A. I was like “ i dont know him at all” then she even started thinking about planing on a hangout/event. I casually rejected.


One time we were in a Christmas party at the office. He did sths and said something that made others thought he was defending me. Then the people started smiling at me.

but i dont think i can date people from my workplace. It might turn into nightmares… or it could be a trap so they can make fun of me.

I ignored them for months. Then they started calling me arrogant / waiting for people to chase. I was annoyed so i told them i reached out to a speed dating company. They have stopped.


RECENTLY THEY STARTED IT AGAIN. And one person sent me pic of him talking to another girl told me to make a move or else it will be too late. I was little bit sad at the beginning but now i m alright.

what would u do if u were me?

I've been on a few dates with this guy and after he rejected me saying he didn't really find me that attractive. Then i asked why would you go on 3 dates with someone you don't feel attracted to. He said because he is kinda attracted and he liked my personality so much and we clicked instantly so good he just couldn't let me go but he feels like he has to. We agreed to stay friends and still talk sometimes but not all the time anymore. I didn't reply to his last message (a long one we had a conversation going) i will give him some space and ask him whats up a couple of days later. When he rejected me he said that somehow this feels like a breakup to him because likes me so much.

I can't figure out what he meant okay if he is not attracted he still wouldn't have gone on 3 dates and talk for 2 months flirting constantly because if men lose interest they dont have the energy to talk 0-24 after that. Maybe something happened to him I don't know i thought everything was great. Now that i'm ignoring him will this push him away even more? Is there a chance for him to regret his decision and miss me?