Search Results: if this guy actually has feelings

Is my girlfriend interested in another guy?

So I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now though we talked for almost a year before it was made official. Her and I work together and there is a coworker we have that I feel she may have feelings for. The...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My fiancé’s drinking is starting to worry me?

Hi all, I apologise with how long this is going to be. Basically myself (31m) and my fiancé (30f) have been together for almost 3 years, we got engaged last year. Leading up to the proposal, everything was going...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I deal with the feeling that I ruined my chances to potentially be with a great guy?

I say potentially because I'm only 80% sure he liked me but the signs were there. I've started falling for my coworker after we had some great conversations and I realized he's basically male version of me but when I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it wrong to have a guy best friend when you have a boyfriend?

More backstory, My guy best friend is also good friends with my boyfriend. When my boyfriend and I broke up, his friend and I started talking. We got pretty close, he is like a little brother to me. He talks about his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Female choosing quandary?

As the title implies I'm in a not so fun crossroad in my life where i have to choose between 2 girls. One is absolutely drop dead gorgeous and gets attention from quite literally every guy and is head over heels for me,...

Juan92x

Xper 1 Age: 33

Family & Friends

IS THIS A SIGN OF A JEALOUS FRIEND?

1. I told her about a guy that I have a crush on. She came to me one day and asked, what if your crush has a feeling for me? I was shocked, i knew we dont have the same type. I just laughed it off and ignored the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do guys actually behave in front of the girl they like and their female friends?

I have been feeling really comfortable with a guy I know for around a year and I'm wondering if he actually likes me romantically or as a friend. He is rather talkative and very nice, he smiles a lot and is open to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

There's a guy at my work, he doesn't say hello to me?

Were working at the same place, but we're not working together. There has never been a situation where we introduced each other or so. But: sometimes we had a longer eye contact. I tried to say hello, but I couldn't....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy is giving me silent treatment after I respond late to his messages?

Guy friend is now not responding for several days after he sent me a message asking to consult with me and I responded several hours later. In fairness to me, he had been unbearable the past few weeks and had been...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

What’s happening? My crush’s behaviour has changed?

So, I had a crush on my friend (let’s call him “Josh”) for about a year and a half and thought the feeling was mutual, (although I never asked him directly I just had a 90% hunch but could never get it to reach 100%) and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will a guy pull away if he has too much on his plate and is afraid of disappointing you?

I recently broke up with a guy a week ago because it felt like he was pulling away. Before we saw one another at least 3-4 times a week. There was a bit more to it but it felt like he was losing interest even when he said...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does the reason we got together matter?

I recently got into a relationship with this new guy and I can’t help but have the feeling that I am just filling his desire for a relationship rather than being the person he chose to have a relationship with. About a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I tell if my guy friend likes me now?

I liked my guy friend a while back and he didn't reciprocate so I just learned to push my feelings away but I don't think I actually moved on. Recently he has been flirty towards me, more than he used to but the thing is,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I crazy/stupid for Falling for a Much Younger Guy?

I'm a 40-year-old single mom who recently started dating a guy who's 15 years younger than me. Initially, I thought it would just be a casual fling. I was undeniably drawn to him, initially mainly because of his...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

I think this guy from my gym followed me to the store yesterday. We saw each other and ended up talking for about 30 minutes. Does he like me?

First off I have a boyfriend who never goes to the gym with me because he is a mechanic who has back problems and gets enough of a work out from that on a day to day basis. There is this guy I have been noticing at the...

katelynbrown123

Xper 5 Age: 26

How do you tell someone you're no longer interested without hurting them?

For 3/4 years i had a friends with benefits with a international footballer. When he was in the uk we would hook up in his hotel and go and do things together. So it's was actually a friendship. When he would be back...

lilyanony1

Yoda Age: 35

He said he wants to see me but hasn’t made an effort?

A guy from my past resurfaced recently, an old friend that I had brief “stage” with, I don’t even know what to call it. About a year after my breakup with my ex, this friend would occasionally message me flirty things and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to avoid feeling worthless and avoid falling apart because he’s more attractive than me?

He’s a few years younger than me but works harder than me. I’m actually putting him in a pedestal because he’s a very attractive guy. He’s perfect. I’m not that attractive and the only reason why I think he keeps...

Anonymous

(30-35)