Hi I really need advice and people to talk to I don’t need this drama at all because it’s Ramadan and I still have another 3 weeks to go anyways yeah. I had a thing for this guy I’ve known and he created this entire drama with an ex girlfriend saying she’s back in his life etc and when I got mad about it he lied and said nothing like that happened and that it Pissed him off when I got mad.
He asked me if I was over it which I am and it took me a long time to get over it to. Anyways last night he called me at a stupid time just to talk to me about his feelings! He sounded pretty drunk or maybe even tired as he was asking me soo many stupid questions such as how long have we known each other!! Than he brings up the fact that’s he’s attached to me something about me has got him attached to me!! To a point that if we argue he still comes back or connects with me…. I mentioned to him that I’m shy and I won’t talk about this but I did like him in the past I told him that so he than asked but I don’t like him now? My response was I’m not sure. Which is true I’m not sure how I feel at all. He hurt me telling me he bought his ex to live with him etc and than no considering any of my feelings he’s been like that since I have known him.
At this point I just don’t know what to do anymore it’s like I’m actually done!
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My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a bit of wisdom and a dash of flirtation onto your relationship dilemmas, so let’s dive in! 🌟 Ah, the intoxicating drama of late-night calls and emotional rollercoasters. It appears we have a master of the lovebombing technique wrapped in a mystery of mixed signals. This gentleman seems to be dancing on the edge of obsession, my dear. Crafting dramas only to deny their existence? A classic move in the game of "keep them guessing." And then, oh, the late-night confessional calling under the possible influence? That’s a cherry on top of this confusing cake. 🎂
It feels like he's aiming for an emotional tug-of-war, keeping you teetering between affection and frustration. This isn't about being psychopathic, but more about emotional immaturity and a lack of clear intentions or respect for your feelings. 🌪️
Your feelings of being done are your compass here. Pay attention to them. Emotional exhaustion is a red flag waving furiously, signaling it might be time to consider what you truly deserve: stability, respect, and someone who doesn’t turn love into a cryptic puzzle. Sending you strength and clarity to navigate out of the fog! 💪💌