Search Results: my ex still contacts me

Is the increase of more single men & women only going to make the gender divide worse given we have less opportunity to truly understand each other?

I have been single for about 5 years. Don’t regret breaking up with my ex. Lonely or not it was for the best. But one thing about being in a traditional hetero relationship is it challenges you to understand the opposite...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do exes spread hurtful lies after a breakup?

Sort of a continuation of my last question. I was catching up with one of my exes friends because we use to be friends. We all work in a mall so I saw him one day and just stopped to say hi. Someone had seen me speak to...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

Has your significant other's ex spouse contacted you about crazy stuff they did?

This whole thing has honestly been killing my mental health. This guy I am with has been incredible to me for a couple months. Then said he needed space because he was overwhelmed with being a full time single dad,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Tik Tok users, I need some help! Would this be suspicious or mean my boyfriend could be cheating?

I am a little concerned here. My boyfriend had me get his phone for him (doesn't have it locked). When I did, I saw a notification from Tik Tok (he is freaking addicted to that and always on it). That in itself wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is my ex trying to do LMAO?

Wtf is my ex trying to do LOL 😆 he's trying to be sooo messy. He's in prison and what have you. So, I went no contact on him basically because he didn't want to be in a relationship but every time I just try remaining...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my ex still have feelings?

I knew this guy since high school and 14 years later we began dating. Unfortunately we didn’t last long but I fell for him. Once we broke up he quickly replaced me within a week or two then they broke up after two months....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't I get over her?

I was with a girl for seven years and she ended the relationship two years ago. I've done everything to move on since then; hobbies, the gym, a new relationship, even cutting off contact with her. But I still can't stop...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Anyone know what to do?

I've never cuddled nor opened up to someone like I have this guy. Like I'm doing all these new things with him and he's so gentle and caring and kind. I'm just so confused because we are friends with benefits/ casual and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Holidays

Is it inapprorpriate for me to want to send my ex something for Christmas?

So, he broke up with me but kept wanting to keep contact but when he would do so, he'd be perpetuating my feelings for him by saying he loves me and just taking about feelings so I did put forth a boundary that I wouldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are you okay with dating someone who maintains an active platonic relationship with a former sexual or dating partner?

I have had platonic relationships with the opposite sex and I can honestly say that I never wanted to have sex with the women who had always been just friends. Yes, it is possible. . . at least for me and some other...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

I have had platonic relationships with the opposite sex and I can honestly say that I never wanted to have sex with the women who had always been just friends. Yes, it is possible. . .

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Family & Friends

Why can’t some people understand that not everyone comes from a loving family?

Okay so one of my friends I met a year ago (we were getting to know each other) thought that I had am amazing family and well put together. She asked about my parents, but the truth is I don’t really talk to my parents...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I go for the guy that respected and treated me better than my ex (only problem is is that he is my ex’s friend) ?

So me and my ex broke up the Sunday before Thanksgiving break. I was already mentally checked out from him disrespecting me and publicly humiliating me (making me cry because I told him I would have to pay off student...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

How do I make her stop liking other guys post and talking to other guys otp?

(long distance relationship by the way) she always likes other dudes post and she has this one guy bsf she runs to when me and her argue. I've told her multiple times i dont like that and she always says that their her...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it love-bombing or is it just an awkward situation, and he is just using her to get back at an ex girlfriend?

My friend had a brief fling with this guy and certain circumstances meant she got pregnant but decided not to keep the baby due to going back to uni. However when she told him she was pregnant, before she had decided what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Older man at work - I like him but do you think he likes me?

I’m 33 and he is 53. I never thought I would feel this way about an older man but I like him a lot. I was immediately attracted to him when I first met him 6 years ago not only his looks but his personality too. We became...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is my friend being love bombed?

My friend “22F” had a brief fling with this guy and certain circumstances meant she got pregnant but decided not to keep the baby due to going back to uni. However when she told him she was pregnant, before she had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would it be bad if?

Is it bad if I still attempt to be friends with my ex’s family? I knew his family when I was little due to a friend at the time. When me and that friend stopped being friends I stopped talking to the family. But when I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would you avoid speaking to someone at your work despite claiming you are in love with them?

My friend had a brief fling with this guy and certain circumstances meant they ended it briefly before hooking up once more again. However since this has happened he has been saying how in love with her he is and how he...

Anonymous

(30-35)