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One thing about a more secular society is people are more likely to face shame as societal punishment vs. actual guilt.

Shame is an external force. Sometimes it is well justified for people who really do wrong. Other times the “shame” is socially constructed and evil on its own. The Maoist struggle sessions are a great example of this. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Struggle_session

Guilt is internal. It’s actually a much more powerful psychological motivator to make right or wrong decisions. Upbringing, communities and religious influences can directly impact guilt.

But some people are sociopaths/psychopaths and don’t feel any guilt. Hence they only worry about their reputation being harmed vs. whether or not they actually harmed someone.

Anyway I’m noticing this bizarre trend in modern society where we have become more “tolerant” of certain deviations but far less forgiving others. Less forgiveness too. Ironically I think this is driving some people to actually get worse on actions that harm others and themselves.

Boyfriend A - Funny as heck. Could be a whole comedian. Always has something in store with jokes. But he lives like in the gutter and with little to no comforts. He spends his time making you laugh whenever possible and sharing lots of funny memes with you.

Boyfriend B - Boring as heck (probably). Doesn't know any jokes, doesn't focus too much on making you burst into laughter. But he is super reliable and fairly stable and living with noticeable modern comforts. He spends his time on meaningful things like better life, stable living, more comforts and conveniences, less things to worry about, stuff like getting an automobile is on his next agenda or starting to purchase a home and start paying the mortgage. This image is however too much "minimalism" of what I wanted to display. There should be a big bed and a wardrobe.