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This always seems to happen in particular with Spanish and Latin American girls named Carla, hence being coined the Carla situation:

You meet an incredibly attractive girl named Carla at some social gathering. You both hit it off immediately and there is clearly mutual attraction and flirting. You get her contact information and start chatting. However, the very next time you meet up with her and her friends she is flirting with another guy at the club/party and ends up going home with him. What do you do?

Is this what I must do? Work so hard God is proud of me and blesses me.

I must hit the gym hard and develop physicality, I must get as rich as possible, I must become as confident, charismatic and charming as possible, I must get cool interests, I must develop high social status. I must develop good style and groom myself so well.

I need to be the BEST competitor to secure a beautiful girl for a long married life.
A girl just needs to be pretty and sweet, a man must have so much more. I need work so hard. It might take 6-12 years but it’s worth it.
Don’t forget:

• Only 40% of men in human history procreated whereas 80% of women did.
• Social media has created an ultra hyper competitive environment where super high up men message 1000s of pretty women each in random villages. She’ll feel like a queen when she’s 20 and not done anything with her life. Women get endless attention, a girl can be rude and still get a guy. This is true.