What does “ I’m not looking to jump into anything super serious but never say never” mean?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy from work have hit it off a few times at work parties over months, have a great connection at work etc. he’s shy and quite hard to read but a lovely guy! We recently went on a date and slept together.. he said after he wasn’t looking to jump into anything super serious but never say never, and then we agreed to keep meeting up and do fun stuff in the city, I don’t want to rush thing either but I also don’t want to get hurt… how should I handle things?

[DermalPunch]

He is letting you know up front he will use you for sex.

Once you get attached you will be faded and dropped.

You've been warned. But the way he said it suggests a manipulative nature.

Bottom line, if you proceed your heart will be shattered into a million pieces and your self-worth will take a hit.

Don't be fooled if he tries to seem like he wants to do relationshipy things. It's just to get you into bed or whatever it is then he will switch on you because people can only fake genuine liking and interest for so long.

Be patient and send this one on his merry way. Selfish men aren't ever good in bed anyway.

[Jamie05rhs]

This

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@Jamie05rhs 💝

[melanieeeB]

"I just wanna enjoy the time with you but I don't want anything serious with you"

[raven6933]

He sounds immature and doesn't know if he just wants a friend with benefits or an actual relationship. However I suggest not getting involved with people that you work with. If it goes bad then you also have to deal with seeing them everyday. It's not worth it.

[Guy13]

It means I want to get laid but do not want to e responsible for those actions and what they mean to the other person or myself.

[coachTanthony]

He has already sized you up and knows you are long term potential so he will have sex with you though until that one he does find worthy comes along.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Since he already had sex with you, but said that after, it means he's gonna cheat on you or dump you. Without sex it could have meant he's not sure about you being the right person yet. But that's no longer a possibility.

[DermalPunch]

Oh damn. She already slept with him. Oh he's a real jerk.

[Zbrody1997]

Commitment issues and a desire for just sex unless you turn out to be someone who sparks the romantic in him and makes him fall but good luck…. I believe that’s what that means

[AydenHazor]

Sounds like he doesn't want to enter into a serious committed relationship but wants you to believe there is a chance for it because he wants to keep seeing you and having fun with you (and, most likely, sleeping with you)

[Jamie05rhs]

It probably means he's a player. The "never say never" part was a lie.

[Mayo503]

You’re in with a chance….

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It means to not bother.

[Guardian45]

He wants to keep it casual