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My bilingual Colombian boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) cheated with my friend (ex friend) for several months. Obviously that's a break-up. I dumped the friend too.

I admitted to calling him a racist name but I was so angry and hurt that I've wasted time that I didn't care anymore. I don't hate the race. I hated the person that did the wrong. I have no problems with other people, provided they do no serious offense.

But was I still wrong or not?

I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now and at this moment, there aren't any arguments nor issues. Our relationship remains at the sweet, innocent stage where no major wrongs nor offenses have been done.

However, once trust issues starts, there is a bad argument (ex: if he were to yell out me suddenly and called me stupid... and I yell back) or too much bad blood going on , that relationship dies right? Things never flourish, recovers nor progresses from there right?

Similarly, when you apply for a job interview, you have to give out a good impression or you don't get it. Then once you get the job, you can still get fired if there are too much reprimands from your boss and lots of issues. You would be no where closer to becoming a manager one day. Would you say this is a good analogy? Are they similar?