I’m 21 female and lately I’ve been feeling so lonely. I know I’m young but I’ve only ever had one boyfriend and usually guys don’t approach me. My last relationship ended bad and I have trust issues so I kinda push people away from me. Whenever I do like a guy and they like me I try it out but I always come across the same thing. They just want to hook up with me. They’ll tell me they’re looking for the same thing and then boom when we’re on a date afterwards they’ll try to make it more. I don’t think I choose bad guys because it’s not one specific group of guys I’ve talked to. I talk to all kinds of guys nice one, sporty ones, more quiet guys. I don’t know why they want me that way when I literally don’t do anything seductive, I’ve gotten told I’m a pretty girl but still like it’s hard to date lol. I’ve only hooked up with one person ever which was my ex boyfriend and that was over a year ago. I’m not the type to just hookup with anyone. I like to get to know them first and then if things go good and we become official then I’d be open to hooking up. My friend told me it’s cause guys aren’t going to wait up for me to be ready. That guys are guys and if I don’t give them none they will get it elsewhere. To me that’s kinda sad cause then it’s like I’m only wanted for one thing and no one wants to get to know me, I’m more than just a pretty face. So I don’t know if maybe I do need to loosen up and just sleep with them or I don’t know. I don’t know why it’s hard for me to find guys lol.
What am I doing wrong?
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But then I get confused cause I also know guys don’t want a girl who’s been with a bunch of other guys. Then they want a girl who’s going to be able to please them earlier on. I’m just so confused with the whole dating thing.
