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I had a huge crush on a guy for several years. I’ll refer to him as “A”. We used to flirt like crazy and I could tell he was into me. It was all in the intense eye contact and the body language. He also displayed jealousy if I was “flirting” with someone else.

A couple of years ago, I met another man to who I am now engaged. The first time “A” saw me with my partner, he completely ignored us and presumed he was just a friend. When he found out we were together, he constantly gave him dirty looks and was icily polite if he had to talk to him.

When A found out I was moving in with him and getting married to him, he became quiet and moody in his interaction with me. I saw him today and he barely said a word. I asked him if he was ok, and he said “yes, everything’s perfect”. He said it quietly gave me a fake smile.

Is he upset by the fact that I’m with someone else? Is he obsessed/in love with me?

Well, I am in girls wrestling. My coach and I recently met at the beginning of the season (6 months ago). I know, I know, it's weird and messed up to be attracted to my coach who is married but I don't know, I feel like there are some things he does that make it seem like he likes me. I asked my close friends who are also on the team and they said that they do seem to notice that my coach gets close to me, closer to than the other girls on the team when we talk. I do also notice that whenever he talks and I am around, we have intense eye contact. Like when he talks he will only ever look at me when he's talking even with the other girls on the team or my other coach being there. Additionally, my friend and I have noticed that he seems to act weird when I talk about another guy, in a way that he seems jealous.. It's crazy to think this but I think he does get jealous. I know he loves his wife though and he probably only sees me as a kid but it just can't be me right? Like with that, no way. And, when we talk we seem to talk like friends more than coach and wrestler but then again maybe it is just his way of being and friendly.. what do you think?