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I do not approve in any way if a guy is manipulative.
What I'm saying is, if a guy actually puts time and effort to truly capture a girls heart and let her feel loved and cherrished, she will make her utmost effort to give him anything he wants. Especially in bed.

Removing aside Mary Kay being a sex offender and their sexual relationship starting off when Vili was 12 years old, do you think there is something inspirational about their love story? Think for a second how much jail time, physical and mental trauma, public shaming, death threats that they had to endure, and at the end of the day, they still managed to make their marriage work until death separated them for good; Mary Kay died in 2020 from cancer. When we compare them to their critics and most modern couples today, we can see that they truly did have a stronger love than most modern couples.

I have an opportunity to marry a younger woman who has an excellent personality and is a very hard worker. We have been friends with for a few years now. It was her idea is purely for economical reasons. It would benefit us both.

But I am not in love with her and she knows that. She said she doesn’t care if I date and sleep with other people. This would be a paper marriage.

I have gotten advice for a few trusted people about this. All but one person said it’s a bad idea. I am leaning towards no myself but besides the economical arrangement a part of me wonders if I’ll ever find an ideal partner given my age.

Ever since I hit 36 (in my early 40s now) my dating life has been hell on earth trying to find a truly decent woman I feel attracted to. I have had a few flings with attractive women who would make horrible wives. I tried dating a girl who i felt so so about physically just for her personality. That slowly got agonizing. I ended up breaking up with her and that ended very badly (she went psycho).

However of me just WANTS this life milestone. But I don’t want to be an adulterer. Even though she understands I might date other woman I do have spiritual beliefs. Oddly the Bible doesn’t say anything direct about premarital sex (but it heavily implied that’s not alright). But it is VERY clear about adultery. I wouldn’t feel comfortable cheating on my wife. Even if it really is a paper marriage and it doesn’t sit well with me.