He wanted children and I didn't? We we're together for 2 years and he knew from the start that I didn't want kids?

[Anonymous]

he decided to break up with me cause he said he wanted to be a father a d I didn't want to be a mother, in the beginning I made it clear that I didn't want kids but he committed to me anyways and I truly thought he loved me and wanted to be with me for the rest our lives. But now he has left me for a younger woman who is 26 something, he is 41 and I'm 31..

What should I do In this situation? My family isn't happy with me cause of my decision of not wanting kids and the fact my partner dump me for it, my family says that its failure for me...

I feel like just wanted to pass time and wasn't serious about me...

[MrOracle]

"I feel like just wanted to pass time and wasn't serious about me..."

That may be true, but it also may be that he just didn't realize before how important children were to him. That's still terribly unfair of him to do to you, and I have lots of sympathy for you, since you made it clear from the start what your position was, but unfortunately, human beings are flawed, and sometimes even if you do everything right, the other person disappoints you. It's awful, but all you can do is move on and try again, and make extra sure the next guy isn't looking for children.

[diego_md]

it's not your fault if you don't want kids you was clear about this and you told him this before however not all people have the same desire and it perfectly okay what i would tell no just move forward live your life and do whatever you like you don't have to waste your time with thinking about this if he really love he wouldn't leave you , don't look back

[VanguardTitan]

He probably thought you'd into changr your mind and when he realised you wouldn't, he left.
It's not your failure. You both wanted different things so it's fine to separate for that. You don't need to explain your decisions or change them for anyone.

[boggboss]

Its completely possible that he changed his mind

[Asker]

He always told me that he loved me and I believed it... Is a woman without a child really worthless? Like no man can ever love me for life without a child?

[boggboss]

Has nothing g to do with u being worthless he simply wanted kids

[Asker]

Are you saying I'm worthless?

[boggboss]

To a man that wants kids yes because it's somthing u don't want so a relationship won't work