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27F, I just don’t get why I’ve never had luck with dating. I’ve only used dating apps and while they have a bad rep I know they work for a lot of people too. I’ve been told im cute but when I say I never get approached by guys in person im not kidding. Everyone I knew back in HS and college talked about getting approached by guys. I’ve never had a LTR only dated someone for a few months back in my early twenties. Dating apps I use very casually and have kind of lost interest. The same way all the other women I know had dating happen so naturally for them I feel it should be the same for me which is why I refuse to approach guys moving fwd (with apps that’d be me messaging first). I used to message first here and there but stopped. I get matches on the apps and getting dates aren’t the issue, it’s more along the lines of not attracting the guy I’d like or there’s lack of connection/things fizzle out/guys only want a hook up.

Me nd my bestie's brother like each other, he dropped hints many times , so do i , but he's insecure and shy to ask me out, i wanted to make the brave move and asked him out thrice but he always finds excuses, he told his sis that he feels shy around me alone, so whenever wants to see me he'd ask her to hang out all of us. smtms he ignores for no reason nd other times he chases

in my community confessing love to a guy is not a very good move to do, it's gonna explode his ego nd think m tooo pushy, but other guys still ask me out whenever i meet some1 i feel guilty mybe his sis will call me to hangout bcz he's soooo spontaneous.

should i keep my options on nd go on dates or wait for him?