The girl who I've been talking to for a few weeks hugged and danced with another guy who I can't stand. Should I cut contact?

[Jayyyyy24]

We've been talking for a few weeks now, and I made my intentions with her clear, and she's pretty much felt the same. We haven't started dating quite yet, but it was on a clear path to that. There's this guy who I've had my separate issues with due to him talking shit behind my back about me, she doesn't know this though. I saw him grab her and hug her, with her obviously okay with this. They then danced playfully and hugged again. This obviously made me quite jealous, angry and a little heartbroken, as we just the other day hugged each other for the first time. I don't really know what to do, as my first instinct is to fight this guy, my other option is to cut her out of my life, or just act like this never happened, and continue trying to date her. I don't really know what to do, she texted me a little while asking about my day, but I can't bury these feelings I have, and I don't think bringing it up will do anything good, as I already know her response to this. What should I do?

[Chrysantenum95]

The right question should be, what you should not thought about? At the first place, she doesn't know the conflict between u and the guy. It could be nothing. If you think that there's something on that hug and dance thing, just ask to make clear it with her as like you made clear your feelings towards her. You shouldn't be thought a conclusion on that since you are sure she also had same feeling towards you.
'never assume unless otherwise stated'

[Anonymous]

You should be embarrassed how overly emotional you are. You do not deserve to be with her or any woman.

[Jayyyyy24]

Possibly, but if you were in my shoes, how would you feel? Are you telling me I shouldn't care about another man hugging with the girl I've been talking to? Another man mind you that's threatened to fight me behind my back. I feel saying I don't deserve to be with a woman for that is dramatic. Maybe I'm overreacting to this, but my feelings are somewhat justified.

[Anonymous]

dating is fake

why do you think dating is real

DATING IS PROSTITUTION

she does not love you

do not get emotionally involved with females in GENERAL

sorry this is the world you live in

THINK ABOUT WOMEN IN GENERAL THEY DO NOT CARE ABOUT MEN IN GENERAL JUST GRAPE THEM

https://www.youtube.com/embed/3E_X810kKTM

[Guy13]

No you should have manned-up and taken control week ago. You obviously are wasting both her time and Energy. What you want from her... ? YOUR Fault NOT Hers

[Jayyyyy24]

So you think I should just ask her out?

[Guy13]

Yes Sir... like long ago. I think she probably thinks you are not a serious guy OR you think she is too early to date. What's really stopping you? What is in back of head?

[Jayyyyy24]

Mostly her being very hard to get her opened up, she's super quiet, I'm like that too, but not nearly to her degree.

[Guy13]

Good then... lead her out. JOKES. Animal ones. corny ones. record your voice. in front of mirror. Simple ones like: What did the caged bird say to the cat staring and perched below? Pardon me if I litter... get it? birds crap outside of cage and litter boxes. Memorize 3...

Ah, he makes me laugh... did you know he was funny?

[Anonymous]

You are obviously not mature enough for dating.

[Jayyyyy24]

You're probably right, but tell me how instead I should handle this instead of insulting my emotional intelligence.

[Avicenna]

Ask her out before he does. Can the jealousy.

[Jayyyyy24]

The problem is knowing what I know about this guy he doesn't have intentions of dating her. Dudes predatory as hell. 20 year old who regularly flirts with a 16 year old.

[Avicenna]

How old is she? No matter if it's this guy or someone else, ask her out before another guy does.

[Jayyyyy24]

I'm 18, she's 21