Why would she act guarded and stopped talking to me?

[Anonymous]

Why would this girl who I’ve met a few weeks ago start to act guarded around me and stop talking to me? Before this happened we had chemistry and connected, we talked about life and deep meaningful stuff, she asked me a lot of questions and I felt like we just clicked. She showed signs of interest, flirting, playing with her hair, giddy around me, touch me, laugh at my jokes, stare often, look deep into my eyes when we talked, check me out, she was self conscious around me, she’d be nervous and fidget. She mentioned hanging out together one weekend. Then she’d start trying to make me jealous flirting with other guys, trying to get my attention, talk to everyone except me. Why would she show signs of interest towards me then act guarded and stop talking to me? I’m confused does she like me and want me to make a move/playing hard to get?
Or is she not interested and just being nice and flirty for attention/playing me?

[Anonymous]

Because this is the same girl you’re talking about in every post I’m convinced that she didn’t flirt with other men. I’m convinced you have fear about something. It sounds like she got tired of trying and eventually gave up so now the ball is in your court. When you have a good woman you wanna keep her not lose her. Log off here and tell this woman how you feel. Stop hiding it

[Asker]

I fear that she doesn’t like me and will reject me although she has shown interest. I feel like if I let my guard down and tell her I’ll get hurt. I need to be 100% sure she likes me but I don’t know something is holding me back. I feel like if I do something I’ll lose her and if I don’t do anything I’ll lose her as well

[Opinion Owner]

Let the fear go and trust yourself. Tell her everything you telling us. We can’t live our life in fear because I be doing that as well. Some of the best opportunities be passing us by because we scared to take that chance. So take the chance you got enough evidence she likes you

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true about living life without any fear because I’ll probably end up regretting it if I don’t take a chance and make a move. I just don’t know if it’s all in my head and she’s not showing any of these signals and I’m reading too much into it. I guess I just need to trust myself and go with it.

[Opinion Owner]

Yesss go for it

[Asker]

So I messaged her about everything explaining my feelings towards her and how she was acting and she just blocked me why would she do that if she liked me?

[Anonymous]

Probably because you showed no interest in her, which made her feel like she was only making a fool out of herself and trying for no reason at all.