Guys, Did he like me or not?

[Djuli92]

I went on a first date with a guy which was super great. I think I came off too strong because I felt we had so much fun and I went along with the ride, so that said, I think this was the case really – Because he didn’t want to see me again. So I know this. However, my actual question is how I should interpret that he asked me about other guys. I just wanted to know from your perspective. I don’t understand and you guys, men, can probably tell me cause you know how you work. First off, we lived in different towns and he asked me at one point like “Isn’t there any guys you have dated there or date there?” which I find very odd. Was he that put off by me he was trying to get me to date others or why did he say this do you think? I also met a celebrity that we both like and he was like ”So he didn’t ask you for your number?”. Like I was like bothered by this. I felt like he was like “Just so you know I definitely don’t like you” :( Am I right?

[Guy13]

He was trying to see if you were a body counter. you resisted and he assumed you have something to hide. Nobody likes surprises.

[Djuli92]

You mean he thought I was only looking for sex?

[Guy13]

Not exactly. You were secretive

[Djuli92]

You mean you think I can across as secretive? That’s odd. I felt pretty open. And also while I asking. He also said he didn’t feel a spark but we made out and stuff…

[Guy13]

I was not there, of course. I am thinking it is in your body language. Sometimes what comes out the mouth and from the body are at odds with one another. At those times, we assume the worse...

[Djuli92]

I understand. Thanks for your honesty

[Guy13]

Sure. Good luck...