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There are two types of long distance relationships:

1. When you meet, you live near each other, you begin a relationship, and then circumstances lead one of you to move away far enough that you can't see each other on a weekly basis. I am NOT asking about this type of LDR.

2. The second type is where you meet online, exchange texts, emails, phone calls, and clearly establish some romantic interest in each other. THIS is what I am asking about.

I have had the second type. I met a user on this site, who I will not name due to my respect for her. She is a beautiful lady who lives in Brazil, about 3,500 miles from my hometown. We talked, but not frequently, as she was somewhat shy, but we texted more frequently. I would have flown to Brazil to meet her, but this happened in 2020 - covid times. It became obvious that the international travel ban would not soon be lifted and there were some other factors that made me less hopeful about a future with her. We ended the regular communications and I have only heard from her sporadically since then.

I have a theory that shy people sometimes seek long distance relationships because they have an internal conflict: part of them wants to be in a relationship and part of them wants to run away from the idea. By finding a LDR, you can tell yourself that you are in a relationship without facing the prospect of actually meeting and dealing with all of the anxiety associated with that. But, of course, LDRs rarely materialize into real long term relationships. For most people, they are just a form of temporary "pretend" relationships.

What is your experience with LDRs?

• She got into relationship with a guy with from different city.
• She isn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if guy messaged her she replied after quite a long time stating that she is very busy with domestic work, her parents and baby sitting her brother's kid and supporting her brother's pregnant wife.
• She is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.
• She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.
• Currently she can't focus on the guy. Her priority is her parents, brother's kids as of now.
• When she'll move in with the guy she'll give him all the time but not now.

So what can be said about her behaviour, her feelings for the guy and should the guy continue with her despite asking her to give him more time?

I was in kind of a relationship with a girl with a girl from different city. She wasn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if I messaged her she replied after quite a long time.

Her reason was that she is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.

She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work , taking care of her brother's family and his kids. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.

So , she doesn't have much spare time for me.

I always questioned about her feelings towards me because of her behaviour.

Recently she got really furious at me and texted really harsh thing about me , my family and also body shamed me and then blocked me.

Now , what should I do? I have texted her (SMS) sorry to her later.