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I was on this site with the same issue about 6 months ago. My girlfriend stopped having sex when we used to have a good sex life. At the time, her reason was that she’s on antidepressants and it kills her libido. I stayed by her side trying to be a good supportive boyfriend. But now her excuses are getting more and more pathetic.

Today she told me come over and we’ll have good sex. I went over and we did a lot. We went shopping, made dinner, worked out, and showered together. When it came time for sex she said the house is too cold to have sex. So I turned up the heat and we watched tv while waiting on the house to warm up. She fell asleep on the couch now saying she’s “too tired”. I’m really to cheat. Should I just drop this girl?

I don’t feel like a have a girlfriend. Feels like I’m hanging out with my sister.

I had repeated topics with a close friend of mine and one topic we can't go without are women. According to him girls are literally brought up to believe, that their proactivity in dating = bad. And that passiveness is the way to go. However the recruiter girls, who look for candidates for their companies or clients are doing their jobs and are getting paid to be proactive in the job market and headhunting the applicants. I raised a point like "it would be dope if girls would be like that in dating too".

It got me thinking. Since the girls generally don't do anything in dating and finding boyfriends, is it true, that they were brought up to not be proactive in dating? Or is it (like it is in my case), that they were simply never taught how to do that and navigate through dating and finding partners?