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Take two hypothetical people, for example.

The first guy literally lives in his parent's basement in his thirties and has never moved out of the house before. He's tall (6'2", 6'3"), has a long nose, and skinny. He barely passed high school and has no college degree. He works part-time at a Walmart as a cashier, but his "main source of income" is doing online gaming streams to a medium-sized audience who donates just to mock him.

He's a virgin who has never kissed a woman before, but is sure he knows 'what all women want' in a guy and acts like a perpetual Nice Guy. He's a male feminist and unironically uses terms like "toxic masculinity." He's a "proud simp" and uses OnlyFans. He's also a proud atheist. He owns one or more cats and is proud of that, including wearing cat sweaters. He's a smug, arrogant, juvenile person who believes he's very smart and has life figured out. He has an excessive amount of ego (confidence) and believes he's the epitome of what all modern men should be.

The second guy lives on his own, by himself, in a nice top-floor apartment. He's short, and has a "dad bod." He grew up poor and lower-class and worked his way up out of poverty over time. He has a graduate degree from a well-known university and is highly intelligent and hard-working. He works a respectable career helping people daily, and has plenty of money saved up. He doesn't spend his money that much, and instead, invests it saves it, or uses it for self-improvement.

He's currently single, but has been in previous relationships with women before. He's not a simp. He's apolitical and dislikes most politics. He's agnostic and doesn't think about religion much. He's a nice, respectable person, but doesn't take abuse or bullying from others. He has a low amount of ego (confidence) because he feels like an underachiever compared to those around him, had a slow start in life, and is not yet quite "rich" or "wealthy."

Which guy do you think has a better mindset?

This was the initial twitter quote that started it off

You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife

— *⋆ 🎀 евелина 🎀 ⋆* (@soviethoneytrap) December 17, 2022

For those who can't see. The user said this "You can’t call yourself an alpha male and have an Asian wife". And this is coming from a white female.

Some of the highlighted replies

"All Asian women are mid and generally the white men who go after them are mediocre themselves."

"Delusional. Asians are bigger sl*ts and goldoggers than white women they literally fuck everything that's white and has money."

"AFAIK people can date whoever they want. Don’t act like your women don’t throw themselves at White men like it’s the end of the world though. Being together with an Asian as a White male is incredibly easy"

"White guys bragging about how they’re super mediocre & no one even looks at their direction in their countries but in Asia the women incessantly approach them because they’re white etc.. it’s a documented phenomenon"

"Another point: the low-quality of some (many?) of our women, has driven white men to date Latinas and Asian girls, who will, most of the time, treat them better than the white girls who they’ve dated prior. Not saying it’s good, not saying it’s bad; it’s just how it is."

"True story! White men with Asian women = last resort because you weren’t man enough to find a woman on your own level! It is fine if you want to resort to that measure, I don’t mind, but you will always be a soy boy beta male!"

Same sentiment can be seen on white dominated websites such as bodybuilding. com/misc where many users have said in the past that other white guys usually look down upon white males who date Asians.

Male Led Relationship: Just the usual traditional marriage where the man is in charge. The guy gets the final say while he is the one who makes the money and make the decisions. His wife is essentially his responsibility and she usually stays home and do the cooking, cleaning and raising of the children. He is basically the boss!

Female Led Relationship: This is essentially the reverse of the traditional male leader and women follow relationship. In the female led relationship the woman is in charge and have the most say at the house, she will most likely be the main breadwinner and her husband is her responsibility. Her husband might take up the traditional feminine job of being home maker but still she is the boss and have the final word.

Partnership Relationship: In this relationship there isn't really a main leader because both the man and woman equally have a say in the couple. This relationship requires more compromise but still both the guy and girl have the same amount of power so no one is the final decider.

So men and women in terms of finding a potential partner which sort of lady or man is in your mind?

Personally myself I prefer if me and my future girl compromise and share equal say and responsibility I don't favor this one gender lead and the other gender follow concept. I rather choose a partnership but what about you men and women which relationship look more appealing in your eyes?