Do I accept my current companies counter offer?

Anonymous

I've been there six months, I get along with nearly everybody there and have built relationships, but I feel swamped, overwhelmed and stressed. The management accountant left a month after I started and her work was passed onto me, I got shown how to do some of it but most of the work was just learn as I go.

I would go home and worry that I can't do the job and it took its toll on me so I started looking for another job. I got offered a job which would be less work and better benefits, but my commute would be over an hour there and back instead of 15 minutes.

I told my manager on Friday that I had been offered a job. My managers boss had a meeting with me and he asked why I was leaving, I told him how I felt and that I was scared about the companies upcoming court case against the CEOs. He went to the CEO and got info on the court case (the worse case scenario is a fine) and offered me more money (about £1k less than the new job). He told me that I was being too hard on myself and that I was doing really well. We discussed how we could better ease things, that I should ask for help more and that it's not a sign of weakness.

He's told one of the directors that I've handed my notice in and not to make a decision until I've spoke with the director.

I don't know what to do.

Do I accept my current companies counter offer?
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