I’ve been talking to the guy for 5 months. We hung out all the time and whenever I needed something he was always there such a food, money, vent, etc. I didn’t really take him serious though but there was feelings there. Everyone down to his friends knew he was obsessed and he really liked me. He invited me too his birthday party back to back and his girlfriend was never there. Certain things he did I knew he really liked me and he always begged for me too take him serious but i never want too because i just didn’t trust boys and i didn’t want a relationship. He always said just put your guard down so i can show you that i won’t hurt you. I found out the other day he had a girlfriend and she’s younger than me. I feel like he was using the girlfriend because he needed somewhere too sleep. I confronted him but he lied about it. The girlfriend wanted us all too talk and she basically found out everything. I slept with him only once and he gave me head and he always begged too give me head because he said he wanted too make me happy. I don’t think he was trying too only sleep with me because I slept with him once and he still stayed months after and his feelings never changed and he never acted different. He was just always so pressed for me too take him serious. The girlfriend went through all our messages and he told me that he didn’t have no problem with me or hate me or anything when we are all talking. Now i haven’t heard from him now i’m just traumatized by this situation.
How can he be obsessed with me and still have a girlfriend?
