I'm financially independent , I have my own way of paying my needs.. and as I'm from Asia, I don't even ask my parents for money!! but my boyfriend whom I'm in relationships with 2 months, always try to spoil me with extra expensive gifts, or want to give his money like nothing... today he wanted to give me 250$ for nothing... he even wanted to pay for my gaming too.. sometimes I wonder is he tryna be my sugar daddy? and even I asked him that.. and he replied that it's cause he likes to spend on me... and I don't take his money and it's getting weird refusing him too... he's so stubborn... oth, he doesn't receive gifts from me, cause it's his job of spending, not mine!!! cause he's a man!!! he should pay for everything... is it a red flag? I'm totally confused of his behavior.. whenever I talk about anything related to money , he just offers me to take some money from him... and it's making me feel bad... cause it's like I'm manipulating him to spend on me... and it's beginning to get awkward as he doesn't listen to me!!!
(He's a med student by the way, so I think it's not even his own money)
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Provision is how he shows love. might not talk much... touch much etc. for some guys fixing and providing is "showing/demonstrating" I love you...
I think he’s just being nice and loves you. Nothing wrong with that. If you got money you could spoil him a bit back
The woman I love has to support some freeloading guy she's with