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I am talking about on average here I understand there is exceptions to the rule. But men and women are tricky as well as easy to catch in their own ways.

Men are much more impulsive cheaters on average. Not that women can’t have someone approach them at the right place right time but men are more likely to sleep with a woman he doesn’t even know…. So you may never know that it even happened. However they aren’t very planned out. They don’t really cover their tracks well and if they start talking to someone or something it becomes easier to spot.

Women on the second hand are usually much more planned out. They know who they want to cheat with as well as have a plan to cover their tracks before they act on it. What’s the catch? Women typically are sleeping with someone she or the both of you already know. After so long it becomes more obvious something is going on despite the gaslighting attempts.

The chances are higher that someone will rat her out, that you’ll notice she’s too close to someone, roomers, etc. Especially using their friends to cover it up sometimes one will start feeling bad and confess it. Or even seduce him and tell him.

So both are easy as well as hard to spot. Men are more messy. They don’t plan it out well and don’t cover their tracks well. As where with women they do BUT…. At the same time are doing it with someone close. At some point it becomes obvious if someone doesn’t say something

Maybe the reason some people cheat and others don't is that some of us consider cheating to be a horrible and unforgivable breach of trust, while others might think, "I won't get caught but, if I do get caught, it's not that big of a deal."

So, two questions:

1. Have you ever cheated on a partner to whom you had promised faithfulness? and

2. Would you end the relationship if you discovered that your partner was being unfaithful?

I've never cheaated on anyone, but been the victim of cheating twice in 53 years of dating, relationships and marriage. The first time, my girlfriend confessed the affair to me shortly after it began. The second time, a mutual friend told me as I was already in the process of a divorce.

If you cheated on a partner, did you think that you could keep it secret forever, did you not care whether you were discovered, or did you not even consider the possibility of getting caught?