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I recall the first time I recognized evil... it was front page Susan Smith... lying about what happened to her 2 kids when in fact, she'd sent them to their death. The twisted distorted image I saw was the worst printing job ever for her emotional expression was of conflicting emotions. I wish I'd saved that newspaper...

Not long after, I had my own experience with feeling really hurt, disrespected... more than ever. My values were in the wrong place and as I ruminated the thoughts became evil. Evil meaning, harm others.. and not care. It was scary to observe, I was a "good" person. I discovered how anger is like a drop of dye in water... it shades everything.

I'd had a good life compared to many, but that doesn't matter when your core value is torn to shreds!

I told my boss I was taking a leave...3 weeks. Out of that... I found "Christ" for I saw the value in what He did... to save me from ruin. That started a process of healing a wounded heart that started in early life. It took decades. One persons solution may be different than another, that's fine. The answer here ultimately... responsibility.

My evil was rooted in sadness and despair. It was fuel for bad actions. Can you relate?

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I think fundamentally... the essence of evil is the lie... that is we are separated from our root energy... aka "God/love". It's a lie, but believing it... leads to all forms of debauchery... aka "Evil"... in all forms. some worse than others. That disconnect... is sadness.

There is evil, and thus good. I hope you can use such awareness to better yourself and better engage your fellow man (kind)... some of which, is suffering and crying out to be heard.

What would be your ideal height, for either yourself or a partner. Pick either one, or both.
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Dependent: You prefer to be supportive role for your man/woman, if you need money or emotional support you hopefully can relay on your romantic partner. You realistically ain't the most self sufficient person but you are definitely one of the sweetest people and you can give people emotional assistance especially for your partner.

Independent: You the kind of man/woman who doesn't enjoy relaying on others to give you a life. Instead of needing your partner to help with money issues you prefer to be the person who makes his/her own money. You are definitely really self sufficient and definitely more assertive compared to your partner. But despite being very focused on yourself you ain't exactly the most friendliest individual who technically wouldn't be the best when it comes to emotional support because your personality is way too dominant for any support roles.

So basically my question to any men and women out there if you wind up in a relationship but in the relationship you have to become one of these which type of lover are you? Are you the dominant alpha male/female who prefer to take up the leadership role and try to earn the bacon for your honey?

Or all you the type who wants to play as the submissive in the relationship be the gentleman/lady who would be willing to give emotional comfort and help your partner in being the follower in exchange you don't have to worry about making money because your partner is earning money for the both of y'all?