Search Results: does my ex want to be friends

Why is my ex insisting on being friends?

My ex dumped me back in June and is now dating the woman he told me “not to worry about because they are just friends”. I never begged him to stay because honestly I had a gut feeling that he was going to break up with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m taken and my guy friend keeps messaging me?

So, I think about putting myself in my SO shoes and would not be fond of him texting a female 24/7, and he’s the same. we have our own boundaries. except this guy who was my guy bestfriend for a few years, will NOT stop...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why hasn’t he completely removed his ex from his life?

So I was seeing this guy for nearly a year before finding out that he had a girlfriend (long term, lived with her, they were both on lease, was still sleeping with her, saying he loved her and going home to her every...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She Broke Up with Me and Now Wants to Be Friends—What’s Going On?

I'm over it now, but I'm curious—what does it mean when she does this? She was my first girlfriend and a really nice girl. I was always there for her, sat next to her in class, and communicated clearly. Then, out of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Isn't it very rude for my ex boyfriend to still be asking for a friendship when I'm engaged?

He's been blocked since Oct 2021. I'm already engaged and the documents for our marriage have just arrived 2 days ago. He sent a text on my WhatsApp from another new number and likely by someone's else cell since I've set...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex puts me in a no win situation should I leave him for good?

We met at work approximately a year ago. Since then he's broken up with me 7 times. I'm usually the type of person who doesn't even allow second chances let alone seven. He says things like he doesn't trust me but I told...

Starstruck4you

Xper 4 Age: 30

Is my ex trying to keep me there for when he wants me or is he being genuine when he says we could get back together in the future?

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years, lived together with friends. We mutually broke up in March due to communication, mental health, and me moving 3.5 hours away, temporarily. Not even 5 days after we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my guy friend said this to me and what does it mean?

So he was venting to me about his ex and my homegirl the one he has always had feelings for but she wants no parts of him in a romantic way just in a friendship way so then he proceeds and asks me “if me and you were to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it man when someone shames you for turning down their friendship offer when when you clearly have feelings for them?

Long story short I will not get into too much details it's too much of a long story but my ex decided that he no longer wants to be with me after 8 years of knowing and sleeping with each other and he also confessed that...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 35

Dating

Is my boyfriend cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

So I’ve noticed my boyfriend being hot and cold with me recently. He always seems irritated with me and then switches to lovey dovey for a couple minutes and then back to irritated/distant again and the cycle repeats,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

My ex with BPD is starting to make me nervous, what do I do?

This is a very unfortunate situation as I don’t think he’s doing enough for me to actually take this further, and I work with him once a week (yeah I know, big mistake.) Also even if I found another job, my feeling is...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Am I thinking too much?

I am dating a guy who is 2 years younger to me. He is nice and gentleman kind. I like him a bit and he says he likes me. I slept with him on our 2nd date. I think I have ruined everything. I don't think he won't ask me to...

Starwitch23

Xper 7 Age: 28

My ex is flirting with me does he want me back or is he playing with me?

he broke up with me then messaged me three months later. We are talking now a LOT and flirting/being super sweet. what do you think his end goal is? Why would he leave and then come back and pretend nothing happened :( Is...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Does it sound like my ex was lying?

My ex contacted me asking if we could work things out. I now live 8 hours away and we split 3 years ago. We’ve been speaking for a month. He’s already cancelled on me twice, first reason was he said he was working and the...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

Why does ex hookup still finds ways to send me a text after I have blocked him?

Basically I blocked him because I found out he a had a girlfriend then he found me on Snapchat and messaged me then messaged me on instagram off a different page. He says he missed me he doesn’t want to lose me as a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it wrong to have a guy best friend when you have a boyfriend?

More backstory, My guy best friend is also good friends with my boyfriend. When my boyfriend and I broke up, his friend and I started talking. We got pretty close, he is like a little brother to me. He talks about his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Have I lost a good friend or can our friendship continue?

A few months ago I hooked up with a friend, (H) for story purposes, we had both worked at the same pub and had been flirting for several months, however i briefly got back with my ex before anything happened (H). However...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this man using me for ego boost?

Hello, I'm 31, he's 38. We went to the same college but never met. Somehow ended up having each other on socials, connected and he asked to meet which we did. We met for the first time one year ago. Then again last...

Anonymous

(30-35)