Search Results: getting chased

Autistic guys: why would you single one woman out?

I'm an autistic female, and struggling with my brother in law who I and his girlfriend ( my SIL) suspect is autistic also. I hang around with my husbands family A LOT. My husband has 2 sisters, one whom is married to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it normal to chase a prospective partner based on trauma?

She was rationalizing people getting together based on trauma and connecting because of that. I was like this is not normal she would often accuse me of gaslighting when I said you needed mental health treatment but can...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What is he thinking? Is there any shot of getting back with him?

So my boyfriend of almost 4 years and I broke up a little over a month ago. It started mutually as we were disagreeing a lot and he said he wanted space for us to both "work on ourselves". I almost immediately realized...

loveandsharks

Xper 1 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Why do a lot of girls love when a guy doesn’t give into her all the time?

I know most girls love to be submissive to their men , and she loves a guy she can look up to. With my experiences with girls , most girls love when I don’t really tolerate their shit and pretty much make it clear to her...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Are humans monogamous?

Taken women still want the eyes of other men on their bodies Women will be with a man with multiple women Most men would smash multiple women night after night if they could 50% of relationships experience some type of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Taken women still want the eyes of other men on their bodies Women will be with a man with multiple women Most men would smash multiple women night after night if they could 50% of

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Should I text him again?

for 6 months we were texting everyday and for the past month we’ve kinda fell off after hanging out twice. Now his responses were every few days and our texts have gotten much much much shorter like we used to talk about...

Lurenbaby27

Xper 2 Age: 30

for 6 months we were texting everyday and for the past month we’ve kinda fell off after hanging out twice. Now his responses were every few days and our texts have gotten much much

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Marriage & Weddings

What is your opinion of those that get bitter about others or do you fall into that category?

If I marry the guy I've been talking to as a friend, I might never have to work again beyond a minimum wage Walmart job or a low intensity tutoring job. I was thinking out of the people I went to university with when I...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Why do soo many men on this site blame, harass & demean women - do you think such mannerism attracts good / decent respectable women?

There's sooo much negativity on this site against women. . Women are predominantly cheaters - statistically proven otherwise for many, many years Women with self respect / don't sleep around - their standards are "too...

BlackBeauty90

Xper 7 Age: 36

Society & Politics

How can people feel pride in things they did not earn?

I used to play a video game called starcraft. In this game I would play 1 on 1 with another player. It's a war game you gather resources build and army and kill your opponent. The matches can be long. Anywhere from 3...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why doesn’t anybody like me? Is it because I’m autistic?

I never understood, I am polite, kind and very helpful but some people think I give a bad vibe or something is off about me. I can be shy and quiet at times but it doesn’t mean I don’t care or I’m cold. As a kid I got...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What's a good way to pull back and make your life more interesting for him to actually chase you again?

Before I start this let me say this i have a boyfriend and I'm starting to see that he's not what he said he was, and instead of wasting my life on this man it will help me untached myself to him and it won't hurt as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are the differences between a girl who wants to be chased and a girl who just needs some space?

I'm talking when you're initially getting to know somebody, not if you're in an established relationship

jazzrecordsatnight

Xper 1 Age: 29

Girls, Female coworker (23f) odd situation with me (39m)?

Last week I got to work on a project with a coworker I've only briefly been introduced to. We ended up getting along really well. I tend to be very animated and enjoy joking and laughing. She seems to be similar, and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Old flame and I went out for dinner, texted on and off and then he drunk texted me about hooking up. Is he looking for a fling or connection?

Long story - enough detail to get an actual answer because I am perplexed! I (F28) dated this guy (M31) for 6 months last year and I thought he was great. We weren't in a relationship, but neither him nor I was seeing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does my daughters dad deserve to talk to her via ft or should I cut all communication?

My daughters father hasn’t seen her since January we broke up in March a have been off and on we’re in two different state he went off to play basketball claiming he was doing so to put our little family in a better...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you ever get tired of emotional mind games? And have you ever said enough is enough?

My girlfriend is a great girl, but she always plays these stupid little games where she pulls away and acts like she doesn't care, so I'll chase her again and make her feel wanted. Which is all I've ever done! How many...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Have you ever realized the thing you've been chasing for happiness is actually the thing making you miserable?

I've been chasing happiness in a relationship with a girl for the last few months (well really for the last 8 years). Thinking she's my ticket to what I need in life. Getting closer to 30 hasn't helped, thinking I need...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long do you usually try to get to know a person before asking them out/agreeing to go out?

The norm for me could be anywhere between 1-3 months. I have to scope out the dude and see what I’m getting myself into. I miss school because it was easier to see how people carried themselves in class/on campus before...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31