Why do soo many men on this site blame, harass & demean women - do you think such mannerism attracts good / decent respectable women?

[BlackBeauty90]

There's sooo much negativity on this site against women.

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Women are predominantly cheaters - statistically proven otherwise for many, many years

Women with self respect / don't sleep around - their standards are "too high".

Women are only good for having cheap sex with, etc. and not for marrying

Women are to blame for violent / sexual crimes due to lack of intimacy for men - proven otherwise in any psychology class above 10th grade education.

Women are only looking for men who are attractive or have money - well then how does 60 to 80% of any world population get married?

Women are trying to "be men" by getting educations and/or having jobs

Women are shallower picking dates - when men say one thing, do another (e. g. say they don't want a tramp, chase women dressed cheaply).

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Like the list is endless on this site. And it boggles the mind.

Do men on this site honestly think such mentality would attract ANY decent respectable - who won't be shallow, sluttish, etc. - woman? I am quite sure, as I don't sleep around, that such toxicity is even unappealing to women who'll fuck anyone.

[ohsheeT]

Either their mother treated them bad or a girl turn them down or they just can't get off their ass and go find a woman so they blame it's easier to blame other people for whatever they feel in life because they're not man enough to take a good look at themselves and change so they'd rather hate and be little and put down.

Somewhere somehow it makes them feel like a man when every questions and answers on here and I read some of the men's answers the only thing I can think is WTF. No wonder why you can't get a girlfriend no wonder why you hate girls look at your attitude look at the way you talk to women you suck as a person but they would rather blame.

Because they're too afraid to look at themselves they're too afraid to be honest with themselves that they have to change.
In a lot of ways I feel sorry for them but in a lot of ways I say you choose who you want to be by the things you say and do you will get in life what you put into it and that's zero

[OfMiceandMen]

I think it comes down to them being raked over the coals by a woman or two, which doesn't make sense.

You can't go through life believing all women are the same and they're gonna hurt you regardless. Blaming every women for one woman's carelessness is absurd.

I think it somewhat comes down to taking the easy way out (laziness) and blaming every woman for the one that didn't work out and being afraid to make the effort and try again.

My parents taught me, you fall off the horse, you get back up again.

[BlackBeauty90]

It could be. But I also think it may have to do with childhood household dynamics what when increasingly good parenting is becoming less & less common within American society.

But as you said, doesn't make sense to lump all women under the same brush. It's literally no different than saying all Hispanics are car thieves & all African Americans are gang bangers.

I don't know if it's laziness or ignorance / insecurity / fear that makes them believe so. Most racists, as example, who will spout that all minorities are lazy or criminals are typically ignorant & unwilling to learn outside of their ignorance-born ideology.

[OfMiceandMen]

For sure upbringing/parenting and what they see and learn has lots to do with it. Children from a broken home tend to carry those memories with them and try to avoid being in the same situation when they get older.

[lilithscandle]

I’ve been debating with some of the worst of them and it’s like they are just choosing to express their hatred towards women out of pure ignorance.

[Lionman95]

Sure it is unappealing and I think some of those guys know that. They just use this page as a vessel for their negative emotions and frustrations. At the same time there are guys that have turned into complainers because they can´t achieve their goals.

[BlackBeauty90]

I think you hit the nail on the head "haven't achieved". These sorts of complaining / blaming attitudes is typical among people who don't achieve and blame others for their own failures in a way.

It's easier to blame someone else for own flaws, after all, then look in the mirror for many people.

[boggboss]

As with many sites online it's become a haven for bitter guys to share their thoughts and circle jerk eachother or attach the other gender for why they feel they are treated unjust happens on many places online and by both genders

[BlackBeauty90]

Oh yeah I know. A few months ago / last year GAG wasn't so bad. Nowadays it's polluted by what many would call social rejects - both men and women. I just hang around because well some of the comments are entertaining.

[boggboss]

Yeah its definitely got worst over the years

[exitseven]

I don't know. I get angry at people that chase away some of our female members. A couple of them have left recently and I sort of miss them.

[shortster]

I think not; which is why I don't participate in such activities.

[Billlewis]

You are absolutely magnificent, ma'am.