Search Results: getting over my ex

Am I at fault for struggling to get over the trauma?

I had a horrible marriage, he abused me, threatened to kill me, penetrated me when asleep, doubted me, gaslit me into believing his behaviour is justified. he'd wake me up at night to fight or i'd find him staring at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What would cause a guy to break up with you, then change his mind and want another chance?

My ex boyfriend has done this to me twice now. Just this second/most recent time, he hasn't came back yet (still might since this break up is rather recent). Both times were very similar. The first time, he got mad at me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Oh no I think I am seeing a pattern and red flags... need the truth?

I just came across this site, if only I knew about the site years ago. Hello, so I am late 40's was in a LDR with my boyfriend, he gave me an "ultimatime" of sorts, either move to me or "I can't make this work and I will...

nicolecpatey777

Xper 1 Age: 54

How can I help my female friend who’s getting over someone?

The female friend in question is actually my ex, and had posted something along the lines of wanting to message him one more the time, presumably the guy who she’s getting over, how can I , as her ex, help her?

Anonymous

(25-29)

If I'm engaged, why does my ex boyfriend still tries contacting me?

I believe if someone keeps blocking an ex, they've made it crystal clear the ex isn't ever welcome back in their lives, esp if the break-up was under bad terms and they were a legitimate horrible person. That's a...

Vesuvius87

Influencer Age: 39

Should I give my (ex) boyfriend a chance?

Me and my boyfriend (20 and 21) had been toghether for 6 months. We rushed into a relationship and shit became bad with lots of miscommunication and misunderstandings. He meant good for me but his methods were real bad....

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Getting over a toxic relationship you didn’t want to leave?

I finally broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months after months of what I’d now actually accept was emotional abuse. My boyfriend even if he doesn’t want to accept it, manipulated me, disrespected and didn’t value me, tried...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

What to do about boyfriend's ex?

They divorced in 2018(she initiated it and moved out) and have a 15 year old son together. I met boyfriend in 2022 and have been with him for 2 years now. She lied and told their son that I was the reason for their...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my ex trying to keep me there for when he wants me or is he being genuine when he says we could get back together in the future?

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years, lived together with friends. We mutually broke up in March due to communication, mental health, and me moving 3.5 hours away, temporarily. Not even 5 days after we were...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What would you Do if your partner bought you Bath & Body Candles which he actually bought all females co-workers gift with yours and cheated on u?

On my birthday ex boyfriend went to buy me 3- wick Bath & Body Candle and when I went to notice that he Stopped me by telling and getting upset that I asked him Why Did He Buy All different candles also his few female...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird to be in your late 30s and still hung up on your ex from years ago?

I know for some people moving on takes time but after a certain couple of years, shouldn’t you at least make an attempt to actually let go? Especially if your ex is already happily in a new relationship and have been for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I know for some people moving on takes time but after a certain couple of years, shouldn’t you at least make an attempt to actually let go? Especially if your ex is already happily in

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Is it normal that everything is a bit awkward when you first start dating a new person?

I am 29. Have been in a relationship for 9 years from 17-26. Now I have been 3 years not dating and just enjoying my time alone and as single. Recently I started looking again and was very lucky to have found a woman...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating a guy that is seperated?

Started dating a guy from work. We went on a few dates and I really started liking him. It was really nice we hit it off really quickly. We even ended up sleeping together. He asked me to have a kid with him on our second...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I’m not a mushy, cutesy woman. Is there something wrong with me?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against relationships or romance or anything like that. However, I just recently got back into the dating scene after years of being single. The last guy I was with fucked me over and dated...

silvermoon84

Yoda Age: 42

My son hates his Mom , Do you think if her and I work things out things will get better?

My son hates his Mom, I have had talks with him about it and I pretty much see his point of view , he is a lot like me , it’s the craziest thing, but I don’t like that he hates his Mom, she blames me and I tell her she is...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend want to get pregnant by her dead ex?

She went to a club and she was drunk and some dudes tried to rape her… her ex was in that club and fought them and he got stabbed and died. Now the problem begins, her ex was always scared dying without having kids or die...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex hasn’t moved on even after over 3 years, is this normal?

Broke up over 3 years ago but the ex is still trying to reach out every once in a while. He’s been told to never contact me ever again and that I’m happy in my new relationship but he still calls me and posts photos of me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, is it wrong to pity someone who's getting over a breakup?

I didn't notice when she broke up with him, yet I noticed her being thoughtful or even a bit sad now and then, and a few weeks later she started to talk about her feelings regarding her breakup. I told her I'd know how...

scooogy

Master Age: 34