My son hates his Mom , Do you think if her and I work things out things will get better?

[Finchie40]

My son hates his Mom, I have had talks with him about it and I pretty much see his point of view , he is a lot like me , it’s the craziest thing, but I don’t like that he hates his Mom, she blames me and I tell her she is wrong , because that isn’t the case at all. I told her whatever is going on between them is between them. I do feel bad , but what can I honestly do about it? I feel like no matter what I say goes in one ear out the other. I witness them getting into some serious arguments together and I break it up everytime, I had to throw him up against the wall a few times to get him to settle down. My ex came over with her so called girlfriend , that I can not stand , and they both were ganging up on me talking shit , they cornered me in the kitchen and screaming at me for no reason whatsoever, my son came out of his room , and told them to leave me the fuck alone, that the 2 of them are complete assholes for what they are doing to me , the girlfriend told him to shut his mouth and pushed him hard , my son immediately broke her nose with one shot and shattered her nose , I immediately jumped in to break it up , she than called the cops on my son and had him arrested , when the cops showed up, they agreed my son was justified for his actions , but they still had to take him away because she was bleeding. I feel the girlfriend deserved it and told her to stay the fuck away from my home or I will have her locked the fuck up. I feel my ex is having a gay relationship with this girl , it’s the weirdest thing. But I still don’t want my son hating his Mom and feel there is nothing I can do. Later the night my ex showed up by herself wanting to talk , she said she ended her friendship with her girlfriend and apologized to me and wanted to get my son out of jail , We both talked all night and ended up having sex , and then picked my son up when he was released at 5 am. My son was shocked to see his Mom in the car with me but seemed happy we were together?

[Crimsyjo]

Take your son and both leave her ass behind. I think u owe it him cos he could get into worse serious trouble if he sticks around her. Maybe they will work it out one day. But I'm certain you getting back with her would be for wrong reason and make things ten times worse.

[HelpfulWoman]

nah. Do NOT get back together unless you actually want to. If she's crazy, your child if they have sense will also see she's crazy. No need to feel bad about your child maturing to be a useful and smart adult

[Juxtapose]

Maybe, but the woman sounds really dysfunctional and not that great for you.

[Finchie40]

Yea , I agree, that’s why I am not rushing into anything neigh her

[Apple1996]

That all sounds like way too much drama. Tell your son to chill out. Most things aren't worth fighting over. Just try speaking postive about his mother regardless if you are with her or not

[fantasticass]

If I was your son I would move out of that toxic environment... shame on you... be a parent not another kid!!

[Finchie40]

LOL why am I acting like a kid? I am the one trying to keep the peace between them

[the29thhuman]

Fantasticass is right.
Sounds like this was brewing before it became noticeable. I feel bad for the mom, putting up with u and her son.
The fact ur son barges out of his room telling people to F off is an issue on its own.
You should take family counselling or off yourself. Men raise boys and women raise girls. Take the boy and get

[Finchie40]

No , my son barged out of the room because he heard me being attacked by 2 crazy bitches for no reason at all , he was just sticking up for me , even the cops said he did the right thing by punching her in the face and breaking her nose , she is a grown ass woman attacking a 19 year old boy , so she is a lot older than him and bigger than him , she had no right putting her hands on on him first and pushing him hard into a table , so his reaction was to protect himself by punching her in the face. He only got arrested because she was showing blood , if he had blood showing on him , she would have been locked up as well. So you are twisting this story around for whatever reason

[fantasticass]

Blah, blah, blah, blah. It doesn't matter what the police say .. you're home is dysfunctional!!

[Finchie40]

Which family is normal?

[GeminiDiamond]

I don't have a son, but I have brothers. My mother always had to put up with all our shit growing up. But her sons always reached the same age and really acted out. Around 13 to 18? As opposed to her girls. Usually dad had to handle them.

[NathanDavis]

like father... like son

[Finchie40]

I only fight when someone threatens me or puts their hands on me , so yes my son is a lot like me in that sense. Even the cops agreed she deserved what she got because she put her hands on him first , a grown ass woman that is bigger and older than he is , she would of been locked up as well if he was showing blood , but since he didn’t the cops by law had to take him in. Me personally would have done the same thing if some crazy bitch put her hands on me first for no reason at all.

[NathanDavis]

so many wrongs... no wonder

[noohair]

Why is your adult son living with you?

[Finchie40]

He is only 19

[noohair]

19 is an adult.