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I’m seeing a guy long distance 5 months now. We met second time 2 wks ago. People say a guy needs meet family by 6 months.
I want visit this guy at state he lives August and meet his family. But I feel he’ll never ask me to meet his family. I’m not even sure if I’m his girlfriend as he never asked me to be his girlfriend. So all day I’m confused if he’s my boyfriend or not. I also never had a guy ask me to be his girlfriend so I just assume in my head a guys my boyfriend.

I don’t want continue seeing this guy Sep to Dec and I show up alone to the family parties and Christmas show up alone, while my whole family show up with their boyfriend 😔 it’ll mean I’m single. And my boyfriend a ghost.

im sad becuase I really liked this guy and we have a lot in common.

but there’s no point have sex with this guy all year and never progress relationship. I’ll just feel like I’m not a girlfriend 😔 it’ll be same situation like ex guy I dated 7 years and we never met family and he use me for sex

I just saw on the interwebs that the actor, Darren Criss, named his new baby "Brother." That's his new son's first name. 🤦‍♀️

Can you imagine when the boy starts dating and his girlfriend/boyfriend introduces him to people and they say, "This is my boyfriend, BROTHER." 🥴

You can name your kid whatever you want, but at the same time, the line needs to be drawn somewhere and I think this is it. This is where the line should be drawn. 😂

Maybe I'm just being "judgy", but what do you think? Should it be illegal to name your kids certain things?

Obviously both are liars and scams, using deception to get what they want. Though would say you baby-trapping a man is worse than strining along (giving them false promises of marriage and kids) women?

Male method: He's been living with his girlfriend for 8 years and he already knows from the longest that he won't ever marry her. Yet he doesn't see the relationship as that bad, just that he sees her as a good girlfriend but not enough to be a wife. So he keeps with sweet talks and false hopes. The woman continues believing him but gets depressed the relationship isn't progressing. She's not happy. Or he proposes with a cheaper ring and keeps her as a fiancee just to give her false hope and keep her from leaving but never plans a wedding date. By wasting her time, he's taking away her fertile years.

Female method: She's been living her with boyfriend for some years but is fed up with the situation. So she elaborates a plan to pretend to be on birth control or secretly sabotage it. Sometimes the woman already knows the guy isn't the type to bail out and is against abortion or she does this to someone that believes a child should be raised with marriage. Knowing that, she got what she wanted; a short-cut to a proposal and then marriage. She might even take that secret to the grave. The man ends up believing the birth of his child as an accident or miracle from god if he's religious.

This is how a baby-trapping (this woman got marriage out of that deception and the man never found out) story looks like:

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/3427335-my-20-year-old-lie-secret.html#google_vignette

Both were about satisfying their own desires and needs; selfishness. Even though both are doing despicable acts (deception is already bad), would you say baby-trapping is worse? The reason I think it's worse is because an innocent baby (a small, living human) is used as part of the deception, scam. I think that's worse than even using someone for sex or money.