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I think a lot of us modern men under 40 become disillusioned with women, and frankly, get fed up with their stupid sh*t, nagging, and selfishness. In our teens and twenties, we often imagine women being kind, supporting, sweet, always there and by your side, pure bliss in the bedroom, and sticking by you, no matter what.

But by the time you reach your thirties, or maybe even before that, you come to the realization that women are just people, and most people are assholes who only care about themselves and will quickly throw you under the bus to save their own asses. But unlike men, women are never held accountable for anything, so get to continue being selfish assholes without consequence.

This is why even in 2022, a man is only seen as being as valuable as his resources. It's never about personality. Aside from cockiness and ego, that is; literally the only "personality trait" that matters with (most) women. Aside from that, you're only as good to a woman as what material possessions you can provide to her.

This isn't to say I hate women. I hate humanity in general! Men and women equally! But do any of you other men ever come to the realization that what you always thought of women, relationships, love, female companionship, etc, to be, was actually just an illusion and that in reality, most women are just a giant pain in the ass and occasional sexual release every now and then? Essentially, love isn't real.

I dunno; I just kinda need to vent today. People suck and I'm fed up pretending like they don't.

Heterosexual Ladies of GAG: Here's a hypothetical man. I was told by one female user he'd be a good man. But is that true? If you were/are currently single... WOULD YOU DATE THIS GUY?

POSITIVE TRAITS:

- Very Respectful, to both you and everyone else. But will always treat you with respect.

- Has good Communication skills, both in public speaking and especially in communicating with you.

- Very Affectionate; romantic, very touchy, and compassionate towards you.

- Really Loyal; to both you and his friends and family. He's the most dependable, reliable guy around.

- Intelligent and highly resourceful. Can easily solve many life problems, as long as they're not social issues.

- Good Sense of Humor. Is witty to hysterical, depending on the time and situation.

- Ethical. An all-around 'good' person. Not a saint or angel, but does his best to be a decent human being.

NEGATIVE TRAITS:

- Short. Probably your height (5'8" or under) in shoes or shorter than you. Use your imagination.

- Average looking face. Probably a 4 or 5 in looks. Easily someone you would NOT find attractive or good looking at all!

- Broke. Only makes around $25,000 a year working full time. May or may not be in university.

- Out of shape. Use your imagination here, but I won't give specifics. Could have a Dad Bod (average-fat), could be stocky/chubby (overweight), or could be obese (290-360 pounds). Take a guess.

- Gamer. Enjoys video games. Plays games about 6 to 9 hours a week. For many, many women, a gamer is a dealbreaker.

- Lonely. Has been alone for a long time (life). Is the same age as you and born in the same year, but has never dated anyone and is currently a virgin.

- Small penis. Is less than 7 inches, but more than 3.9. Use your imagination for the maximum you'd consider "small."

SO, WOULD YOU DATE THIS MAN? (No, he's not me! Nice try.)

@Ms_Facesitter (The main inspiration for the question.)
@Passion_Devil
@Lucy68
@Starlight007
@7barbieringz

Heavily inspired by this question here, would you be considered attractive enough for the modern woman? All of these traits, are the bare minimum women require, the 80th percentile. Meaning, better than four out of five men. You need at least seven out of ten of them to "pass" the "dateable" test for modern women.

1. HEIGHT: Are you at least 6'0"/183 cm tall, barefoot in the evening?

2. INCOME: Do you earn at least $90,000 USD a year?

3. CAREER: Do you have a professional, well-respected career? (Doctor, lawyer, scientist, engineer, etc.)

4. SEX APPEAL: Is your penis at least 7"/17.5 cm in length or longer?

5. PHYSIQUE: Are you in good athletic shape? As in, not overweight.

6. SOCIAL SKILLS: Do you have at least three good friends and/or one really close best friend?

7. CHARISMA: Do you consider yourself a good communicator, skilled at speaking to others, or someone who "has game" at charming women?

8. LIFESTYLE: Are you someone who completely avoids such vices as adult movies, recreational drugs, fast food, online video games, gambling, or couch-potato habits?

9. CONFIDENCE: Do you really like who you are as a person, proud of who you are, or have a high opinion of yourself?

10. QUALITY OF LIFE: Would you consider yourself to be a well-adjusted and happy person with no signs of mental illness, anxiety, or depression?