Search Results: having feelings for ex

Boyfriend having another shutdown and needs space, not sure if its about us?

My boyfriend and I started dating 10 days after we met, its been almost two months since we met. He told me on our one month that he has a feeling we may not last long but still wanted to pursue it to prove his gut wrong....

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Why do I feel like my ex is just looking for an ego boost?

He broke up with me again after we got back together again. He said I should move on and doesn't care if I date other people. With in a week he texted and said he missed me and wanted to be friends even though we couldn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think you are more emotionally unavailable or emotionally manipulative? And what would the person in the description be?

I know have this one friend who is emotionally unavailable. They literally match 1/2/3/6/8/9/10/11/12/13 in the green chart below. Well the person they are dating cannot handle that so that person tends to exaggerate how...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Friend/Ex/Situation?

Kind of want a guy’s thoughts on this. My ex and I decided to remain friends after the relationship, seeing as we were friends before the relationship started. This was decided at the beginning of the relationship, as it...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I justified for feeling this way?

Something has felt off and I know I shouldn't have but I looked at boyfriend's phone during a rare moment that it was unlocked. I saw explicit texts between him and a gay guy friend of his that made it clear that they had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex trying to rub it in my face that he moved on? What should I do?

A few years ago I was ghosted by the guy who I gave my virginity to during the darkest point in my life when I was suicidal and I ended up finding out that he ghosted me to be in a relationship with another girl. I never...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intution that smth is wrong or im overthinking?

So this guy (21M) and I (19F) just got offical 3 days back after 4 dates. We both are old school with dating tho we met on a dating app. it is hella weird cause I am the type to want to take my time knowing someone even...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Other

How and when do I know I’m ready?

Hi I haven’t been on here for a while thought I could just have a deep conversation let you all know what’s been going on.. for starters we can all say that my heart is officially been broken I’ve tried many things to...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

I keep seeing online that men don’t get over their exes now I’m afraid I’m going I find a guy who isn’t over his ex. Are most guys over their exes?

My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago it was a 1 year long relationship and after about a month I was good to go. When we broke up I had no more feelings left for him anyway and by the month past mark I was comfortable...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean when a guy I’ve been talking to says “(my name), we’re still okay? Is he trying to get me hooked or does he genuinely likes me?

Background: We started hooking up in January 2023, but we originally met in 2022 on December 20 something. He lives in Austin and I live in El Paso, TX. We made sure it was just sex, no strings attached. After agreeing,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I keep dating a man with man with many close female friends?

I have been dating a man (50’s) for about a year. I am 15 years younger. We have a great relationship, open communication and I see a future for us. At the outset, he explained he had many female friends. I said I was ok...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do I feel like I am cheating on him even though we broke up months ago? Esch time I tried to talk to him he said we are separated already?

I met my ex around the end of 2019 and we were head over hills in love, at least that how it felt to me and I was genuinely in love and so devoted to him! We settled down quite quickly and I ended up pregnant within 6-7...

Anonymous

(30-35)

As a guy, are these signs of affection? Could this mean feelings still?

So my ex and I broke up 2 years ago and it was more so him ending the relationship because it was becoming unhealthy but we both for some reason didn’t talk about it. Anyway after we broke up he seemed to struggle with...

Lissyyluu33

Xper 3 Age: 33

What's wrong with me that I can't get attracted to some guys who I met through social events?

I can meet men inRL through out social events in the city centre. Other towns or cities might not do social events for learning disability. The only one problem that I seem to notice not many go to some social events just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I a replacement girlfriend or does he actually like me?

So one of my closest friends and his ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago and we’ve been a thing since. There had always been major sexual tension between me and him and we got super super close and then and we had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I his replacement girlfriend?

So one of my closest friends and his ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago. There had always been major sexual tension between me and him and we got super super close and then and we had drunkenly hooked up once...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Someone please help me understand this message. Did he reject me?

"When you're young you live quickly. However, at some point as I see it, you may fall into a kind of cycle where you realise how serious things may be to you and maybe you need more time for feelings. You may experience...

thori2002

Xper 5 Age: 25

Health & Fitness

Wake up at 3 or 4am, everyday?

I wake from my sleep everyday at around roughly 3 to 4am with anxiety or stress about anything it can be, money (even if I don't have money issues) feeling like I'm worthless, feeling like I've made a mistake by moving...

Anonymous

(30-35)