What's wrong with me that I can't get attracted to some guys who I met through social events?

[Anonymous]

I can meet men inRL through out social events in the city centre. Other towns or cities might not do social events for learning disability. The only one problem that I seem to notice not many go to some social events just seem to be similar or same people that do come. Is only in each other's month. That is not really enough time for making friends but not to get romantic feelings. I just see men that I did meet through social events are only just seen as just friends and do not have any type of romantic feelings for some men that I met through social events. One of the guys that I met through social already started talking about his ex girlfriend and his ex girlfriend is his best friend to me. I did go on a date with another person but found out later that one person already had a boyfriend from a dating agency for learning disabilities. That I also wanted to join since there might be more people on one of the dating agencies. At the moment i coudn't join the dating agency because having to have two references did make it a bit easier to get references but then death did happen with older sister boyfriend dad. And now just waiting for two references once again. What's wrong with me that I can't get attracted to some guys who I met through social events?

[laraWM]

There's nothing wrong with you, you don't have to be attracted to the guys you've met. Maybe they're not right for you, but there's no harm in waiting until you find the right one.

[Asker]

i been going to any social events some times but only one each other month or other week. only met one person that was attracted but got turn off. not texting and being 17 year old that i met through a Boccia events then i only see him as just friends to.

[Asker]

That all I get from social events. Just friends. nothing more.

[laraWM]

I can understand but you'll find eventually

[Asker]

I hasn't found anyone. only just friends that I just found. No boyfriend yet.

[laraWM]

Don't worry about it, it'll happen. You don't have to get a boyfriend immediately 🙂

[Asker]

Yep I heard is will happen. Hasn't happened this year or last. waiting nothing will come.

[Asker]

Last year

[laraWM]

I understand, could you try to go to other activites you like? To meet more people?

[Asker]

Yep but I again are only on each other week or on each other days. then none on through the week's by day by date.

[laraWM]

Don't worry too much about it 🙂

[Asker]

Yep done this to thanks for nothing bye.