Search Results: safe sex

Men don’t want to have sex with me because they don’t want me to get attached…. It feels insulting?

I understand it’s better than being used but in the flip side it’s saying “I only see you as good enough to sleep with but not make you my girlfriend” “I don’t love you enough to make you feel safe”….”I’d rather find...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was he saying in a nice way that he doesn't want to be friends with benefits anymore?

This guy and I have been having casual sex for over a year now he's busy working a lot now he just got a new job. So, we don't get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other....

Candykanelove

Xper 4 Age: 39

Why didn’t she try to have sex with me?

I have been spending a lot of time with this friend and we have opened up about everything and complimented each other. She’s flirted with me a few times but she told me she she’s flirted with friends but lately it’s felt...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why wasn't he honest and just told me that he didn't want to see me again?

I've been friends with benefits with a guy for a year he's busy working a lot now. So, we don't get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other. I saw him yesterday and we...

Candykanelove

Xper 4 Age: 39

Why didn’t she try anything sexual when she came over?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was this his nice way of saying that he doesn't want to see me again? Why didn't he just say he didn't want to see me again?

This man and I have been having casual sex for over a year now he's busy working a lot now he just got a new job. So, we don't get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other....

Candykanelove

Xper 4 Age: 39

Relationships

How can I get past my girlfriend ptsd?

Long story short. During sex I triggered my girlfriend PTSD. She didn't make me aware until several days after, which I'm very proud of her for doing. We came up with a safe word to mitigate a situation like this from...

Qwerty098765

Xper 4 Age: 34

Guys, He said, “men will go great lengths for good sex. How do I know when a man truly loves me vs playing me until he gets what he wants?

My concern is always manipulative behavior and/or to be objectified. He will do such wonderful things like play with my hair and buy me chocolate when I’m on my period; or sometimes asks me to do something other than sex...

Turia

Xper 1 Age: 32

Relationships

Girls, Hetero>LGBTQ+ “Hall Pass”? How should I discuss this with my girlfriend?

I am a closeted bi-sexual guy. The only person that I have told is with my girlfriend of 6 years who is one of the best friends I have ever had (she has known for 4+ years and doesn’t care). I consider our sex life as...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What does it mean if he's flaky?

I'm really confused about my boyfriend right now and I think it's mainly work stress but I feel so undervalued and lonely in our relationship anyway. He has a good job but it has been very stressful lately and he is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Embracing Diversity: LGBT Community is Advancing Sustainable Development Goals

The fight for LGBTQ+ rights and recognition has been a long and arduous journey, marked by significant milestones and achievements. In recent years, the global LGBT community has not only made progress in securing equal...

Being_a_good_Indian

Master Age: 28

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Will she ever be the same?

my girlfriend and I had an abortion a few motmnths ago , we took a break from sex but she isn't her usual bright self when we first met, she was more bubbly I'd say. Her parents are extremely strict so we decided to keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I forget her?

I went out with my friends. And these two girls wanted a ride, so I was talking to one of them. And I gave her a hug. She said thank you. And when we were in the car, she said we basically had sex as she went to interlock...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I do the right thing?

I met a guy in Germany in April 2023 and he seemed nice, friendly, like the Middle East culture a lot. So I exchanged numbers with him. We started talking everyday and started developing feelings for each other, and he...

Unknown8264

Xper 5 Age: 33

I’m constantly afraid he’s cheating on me should I slow the relationship or open it or what?

I have been officially dating this guy and everything was great. We even said I love you and I couldn’t see how I could have a better boyfriend. Some odd stuff popped up though where we hadn’t known each other long before...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do men act as if women are evil for only dating men they are attracted to?

All these incels and a majority of men start to hate women for rejecting them or/and for only getting into relationships with men they are physically attracted to. Why is that such a horrible thing? Naturally, we are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Mixed signals from a woman I like a lot! Wants a good time but shows me otherwise. Posts about not feeling safe in connection! What do I do?

Context, the first couple weeks were great. Sending lovey sexts, talking frequently, great sex, spending time together. Then a miscommunication happened that made her upset and she’s pulled away significantly since. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)