Search Results: sex with an older woman

28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?

There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.