today I met a girl on tinder after we had talked a lot about sex and she said that I would go to her house later. during the date she said that I looked different than in the photos and I asked her why she said that I looked older in the photos. After an hour after the date, each one went to her house. I then sent a message and she said let's just be friends. She said my personality was as she imagined but I looked different in the photos. I asked if it was worse in real life she said she just looked different and I insisted several times and she always says that my appearance is just different and she can't say that she thinks my appearance is worse even though she said that my personality is the same as she likes. Because girl, they don't say she really, I insisted to say that she thought my appearance was worse but she wouldn't admit it. It's stupid that she's denying that after saying that my personality is as she imagined and that she was making plans to have sex with me. Clearly the problem is my appearance
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cause admitting that she doesn’t find you attractive can come off as rude.
And tbh a lot of people wouldn’t react well to hearing that. Let’s be real, if she did say “I think you’re ugly” how would you have responded? You probably would have gotten mad at her. She probably was trying to avoid some kind of argument.
not everyone is gonna find everyone attractive and that’s okay. You’ll find someone who thinks you look better in person than your photos. Hold your head up king
But i insist for she say the truth. I ask if she think i look worse and say for the truth.
What would you gain from that? She didn't found you attractive in person and thats it. Move on
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