I am 28 years old, never had a girlfriend. Kinda shy and nerdy, also don't have money, a car, or lofts on my name (still a grad student). Most dates go horribly, they assume there are things wrong with me, and gloat about their past awesome relationships and sex experiences. My condition and finances don't help much. Women around my age have permanent jobs, they don't wanna date someone who only has some research papers to show.
Till now I haven't used any prostitutes for experience even though my friends were hammering for a long time. I don't know, I wanted first intimacy with someone I love. But nowadays I have lost all hope. Girls around my age will already have significant relationships, boyfriends, and sex. There isn't much difference showing anymore. At my age or higher, there will be no actual love anymore, just girls who wanna settle down after having fun.
An Asian lady of age 45 has been sending me cues for a few months. I met her at university and later she sent me an FB request, after some months. She proposed hooking up, I haven't said yes until now but not sure about it anymore.
What Girls Said
Uh you're not that much older than I am. You'd be in what I consider a decent age range to date. I wouldn't care if you were a vrigin. We all were at one point. Not sure about these girls you are meeting that flaunt their sexual experiences. That's honestly weird and I have never seen or heard of a girl doing that. Not saying it didn't happen just very odd. It isn't a deal breaker for me though. The only thing you say that makes me wonder is the whole there will just be girls that want to settle down. Isn't that the point though?
Two people can love from a young age and eventually settle down with marriage. There's nothing wrong. But I have seen a large section of women date certain kinds of men while they are young. Like guys with money, and cars and who enjoy a carefree lifestyle, then wanna settle down and marry other hardworking men after they hit thirty. I have faced this personally. Girls have told me earlier, "Guys like you are only good after thirty".