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Search Results: do you need to work at a relationship
Told me from the start wasn't ready for a relationship, when I asked if I should fall back cause I was catching feelings she said that would hurt?
Met this girl through a friend first night talking we talked for 5 hours on the phone. She stayed the night after a week of talking on the phone every night for hours, two nights in a row and we did sleep together, a...
Anonymous
(36-45) I gave this guy an ultimatum, and I don’t know what to do next?
I own a business, and this man originally entered my life as a client. Things started as a friendship, but even then, we were talking for 1–2 hours daily about business and personal topics. Over time, we became very...
checkmate1234
Xper 1 Age: 31 Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time?
I met this guy 4 years ago whilst training together at work. He approached me first whilst I was working. He asked me if I was the girl he was gonna be partnered with when training and I said yes obviously. After that we...
Anonymous
(25-29) Time to expose myself. Be honest. What are your thoughts on this (abusive) situation?
I need perspective, I haven’t been to therapy, and my friend circle is small. In 2016, I met a man that I really liked. He was 26 and I was 23, and it wasn’t long until we started dating. I met his parents very early on,...
Pink934
Xper 6 Age: 34 Before we get to the “yes” or the “no,” we need to take care of ourself.
Some people look for ultimatums (usually two) for their “stance” on love. Or relationships… as if it has to be DEFINITE. And Unmoving. Like a law. But us, as living, human beings, are constantly growing in more ways than...
What is up with my mother in law?
It's been a open secret in my family since I got married but me and my husband want to try for a baby soon. My whole both family seemed extremely excited and supportive about it and my mother in law even told everyone in...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 What should I do?
I’ve been with my partner for almost 7.5 years and have known his passcode to his phone just as he knows mine. Recently I was setting something up for a account he has and needed a text code that was sent to his phone,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Thoughts on Men indulging in lustful media/creations?
I have a partner of two years. He does an amazing job of taking care of me. But there is one thing I don't really understand about him. He collects these volumptuous figurines, draws art of women with very sexual.....
Anonymous
(18-24) Ladies are you loyal to your feelings or values?
Lets say you in a relationship with your ideal man, he got everthing you want. Then issues arises, and you tell him these issues needs to be fixed in order for the relationship to be safe and work. He fixes these...
WildeWolf
Xper 4 Age: 33 What’s a red flag in a past relationship that your gut picked up—and you’re now grateful you trusted that instinct and walked away?
In my 20s i met someone online who had been deported from the US for overstaying a visa. We started a long distance situationship with the end goal, if we liked each other enough, i would sponsor him for a fiancé visa. We...
DreamCrescent
Xper 7 Age: 39 Do relationship breaks actually help or are they just the beginning of the end?
Some couples say they need “a break” to figure things out, but does that ever really work? Can taking time apart bring clarity and help people reconnect, or is it just a soft way of preparing for a breakup? If you’ve...
diamond
Xper 5 Age: 39 I need help please?
this girl stares at me a lot, remembers small details i told her about, playfully teases me non stop , and touches my arm and back like once a week, she does this stuff to me all day everyday at work.. does she have...
Anonymous
(25-29) What do I do now?
This girl and i have been in a weird connection for almost ten years and i can’t handle it anymore. We both liked eachother as lovers in the beginning, then friends then lovers and it kept going on and off but never at a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I overreacting to the whole situation?
So my boyfriend and I have been together 1 year 6 months officially but known each other for 3 because of work, he's met my mom's side of the family and my friends and he's suppose to meet my dad this weekend. Things are...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my male best friend obsessed with me?
This is something I really didn't want to come to terms with but I'm starting to think my guy best friend is obsessed with me. I've known him for 4 years and to behind with we weren't that close and were just mutuals in...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you cope with non-monogamy?
Hi all, I’ve just been feeling up and down the past 2 weeks because of this new discovery. My boyfriend was caught emotional cheating with his ex last year, we moved past it and worked it out. But then he was caught again...
Anonymous
(18-24) My new girlfriend is being very distant, she has said many times it’s because she’s overwhelmed, but I don’t know if that’s also because of me?
I’ve been dating this girl for about 2 months, and I asked her to be my girlfriend 2 weeks ago. She seemed really excited and we had sex for the first time that night. She has a socially draining job, working with...
Anonymous
(30-35) Hiii, Im going through “something” and I need to know your opinions on this or maybe if u ever experienced something similar?
Im going through “something” for almost 2 years now. So for a little bit of context (because i know for a fact this question will come along, and thats totally understandable) Me (20yrs) and my boyfriend (22yrs) are in a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you really NEED closure?
"Closure" is a frequently used term but I'm not sure we all mean the same thing when we say it. For me, closure means hearing an explanation, having a a chance to ask questions and seek clarification, ending with no...
u Should men pay for everything in the relationship?
Since some woman are stingy and like to only spend money on themselves. When i worked i paid my husband bills cause I lived with him. And paid my own. Cause I dont need my hair done every week or my nails or get pedicures...
missindiana93
Explorer Age: 32 