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(Please be respectful in comments, this isn't a post for shaming people or calling names) A while back I met a girl a few years ago who told me that she was a virgin which I thought was cool. I'm not so as long as your body count isn't higher than mine idc. But she told me she wanted to wait for marriage and her being a virgin I agreed. Then later on her mother called her a born again virgin and I was confused. Apparently a born again virgin is a non virgin women who converts to a religion usually Christianity. After I found out, I broke up with her because it's not fair to make me wait and not other guys. A year later I found out she started sleeping around again after we broke up and I felt I dodged a bullet. What are your thoughts on born again virgin? To me its made up to make non virgin women reclaim the pride they once had before having sex and to attract more men, if she had told me she wasn't a virgin and didn't wanna wait till marriage I probably wouldn't have broken up with her, but the whole born again virgin thing feels manipulative and sneaky.

I feel like my ex was emotionally abusive. I used to really be into her more than she was into me. She used tell me “I didn’t want this relationship, you did”. And when people would ask how we met she’d say “I didn’t wanna date him”. I explained to her how it hurts me when she says these things m. And she’d say “you’re just insecure”.

What’s even worse, she told me about how before we started dating. She went on dates with guys who she really liked and they rejected her. So am I the nice guy who finished last?

I used to be highly attracted to her. She never wanted sex with me, at the same time, complaining that her ex boyfriend didn’t want sex with her. She barely wanted to be affectionate with me.

Even worse, she used deliberately turn me on so she could sexually reject me. Would tell me “come over I’ll lick your balls and your butt” and refuse sex when I show up. Every single time we’d have an argument, even if it’s minor she’d say “you’re getting none”. So I started keeping silent to avoid conflict.

She used to complain that I’m not making her happy and give me reasons why. Which I’ll admit I’m not perfect, I know I have my flaws and bad habits, but. When I’d tell her what she’s doing to make me unhappy she’d reply “you knew I was a bitch when you met me”.

About 3 weeks ago we went to a Thanksgiving dinner at her friends house and I felt like she was kinda flirty with a guy. She seemed very touchy with him. I even saw her put her arm around him. I mentioned it to her a few days later. About how I was uncomfortable with how she behaved with him, and again. Told me “im insecure” and broke up with me. Denied ever putting her arm around him when I saw her do it.

It’s been a couple weeks and I’m still emotionally hurting over her. Haven’t been able to eat or sleep. Having nightmares and visions of her in bed with other men. I’ve dated and had sex with other women since. But I still can’t get her out of my head. What should I do?